Whenever some drunk girl wearing next to nothing with a raunchy slogan slapped on her shirt staggers over and starts grabbing at/making suggestive comments to one of my buddies he's ecstatic. But for some reason women like that just don't do it for me. Not one bit. The aformentioned situation ussually strikes me as either annoying, or in some cases a little disgusting. Before you jump to the obvious I'm NOT religious or gay. I do however find sexual selectivity a VERY attractive quality in a woman, even though it means I need to devote considerable time and effort to getting to know her and having fun together doing something besides screwing before the sweaty make out sessions start coming down the pipe.
I'm writing this post because I am seriously THE ONLY guy I know (personally) who's really like this, and it's starting to make me feel like I'm defective or something. In my mind an intimate encounter with a stranger who's nailed three other guys this months is gross.
2006-08-20 19:34:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are just fine, and you have nothing to worry about. You will find the right woman eventually.
I am assuming I am a lot older than you. When I was a young woman if we dressed and acted like the girls do nowadays, we would have been labeled "sluts" and no self-respecting young man would date us!! If a guy did date a girl like that, he just had sex with her and did not tell anyone---and he certainly never took her home to the family.
I don't mind saying I am in my early 40's, ---I am not certainly not ancient. But I often wonder how much celebrities, such as Paris Hilton, impact our young women. Does this generation believe that everyone dresses and acts slutty like her? It blows my mind......
2006-08-20 19:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl, I think that that's very sweet really. It shows you have respect for women and that you are willing to put some effort into finding (in my opinion) a girl with class and standards...and it shows that you are quite a nice person. You are not the first person I've met like that, but you are the first who isn't religious...there should be more guys like you in the world :)
2006-08-20 19:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Din 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're the only guy out of everyone you know that I would date. Honestly. Good going. Your selectivity makes you much more attractive to the female gender. At least the ones with a bit of self-esteem that are worth your time.
2006-08-20 19:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're no longer defective! It sounds to me which you're greater mature than countless the adult males you draw close around with. I applaud you for that. besides, attending to comprehend a individual and having exciting at the same time doing different issues builds an quite good dating. i % my substantial different to be greater desirable than somebody I even have intercourse with...i desire a pal and an stronger half, somebody i can communicate with, snicker with, etc. If only greater adult males might 'improve up' and notice the real photograph as you have!
2016-10-02 08:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i am like that to because you can tell those kinds of girls an usually they have slept with everyone in the past 2 weeks
and if you know they do that to themselves what is saying that they won't be like that when you are together
i have many friends like that take a different girl home every night an not think twice about pregnancy,stds or even getting to into an leading them on
2006-08-20 19:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys who get turned on by something like this, just want one thing only and that's that. They just see it as an opportunity to take advantage of a situation. You however, see something different, like eeh this could be some kid's mother and you sure wouldn't want her as the mother of your kid and you are not desperate either. I like that quality in you. You are one out of many guys who feel this way, you just don't know them.
2006-08-20 19:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like you are a lot more mature than your friends. You are attracted to the important things in a woman, not just the physical lustful things. I think you have a great quality.
2006-08-20 19:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very special gift from God to married couple. It comes with special instructions.
You are not defective. Even if you do not want to do what God wants you to do, it is a good thing to be selective and wait for the right girl and right time.
2006-08-21 12:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only guy like that, my boyfriend also happens to be like that also, and I think its a great quality in a guy. Its a shame though it seems guys like that are the ones always getting hurt.
2006-08-20 19:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla born 8/18/09 <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that girls are acting like sluts when they do that and i dont understand why the guys do like that im not ugly thats not why im saying this but i could let my cleavage show without looking trashy and hanging all over someone theres a difference in looking good and feeling good and just being plain trashy
2006-08-20 20:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by crazie_for_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋