at the moment, i'm going through one of the toughest times of my life. my moms in hospital, doctors dont know wats wrong with her, i dont understand whats going on at school. i heard my boyfriend had hooked up with this girl (that he kinda has a history with) sometime last week and so i got mad so i shat on him. he got mad at me telling me that it wasnt true, and for sure i found out later on that it really isnt true. i apologise and have been apologising for almost a week now, but he still wont talk to me. i dont understand why though, i realise i made a mistake and i've apologised, but why then is he still mad. the other thing is with all the stuff thats happening in my life, i'd expect him of all people to understand and try help me through all the drama, but he just doesnt seem to care that my life is in shambles and i need a friend. why?
2006-08-20 19:19:27 · 14 answers · asked by firefly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there r times in our lives wen vrything is in a complete mess n the person whom we'd most like to understand n support us turn their backs on us... dis is jus a phase n it will pass away.. so right now i think what u shld do is keep his thoughts out of ur mind... u've already tried ur level best apologising to him n now its his turn to come n support u (especially at this time)... since he hasnt done that, just let him b n wait for some time till he realises his folly... i knw u're feeling very down,helpless n alone at dis moment but i think u should keep having faith in god n take care of ur mother... if ur friend is not wid u, b sure that god is there wid u n vrything will bcome ok in a while... take care, best of luck... b strong n steady....
2006-08-20 19:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by kanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up honey, there are times when no one, and i mean not anybody, means anything, other than family, and that time is right now, you need to focus on your mom and forget about said boyfriend, since he does not, or can not see what you are going through, then you need to dump his a** as of right now!!! The only exception to the no one is important rule, is if you have kids, then you need to spend time with them as well, because if they are young enough, they will not really understand what is going on, although, they will be able to feel the tension in the air, so they will need someone to be there with them to help them deal with things that they can`t yet comprehend.
2006-08-21 02:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by dukefritz79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valuable lesson learned? ALWAYS speak softly and sweetly cause you never know when you're gonna have to eat those words. And do a little more homework before flying off the handle.
He's probably really pissed at the way you treated him especially when he did nothing wrong. In fact, he probably thinks you're a little bit psyhco and is comtemplating whether he still wants to be with you.
It's time to pour on the charm. Start doing all the things you first did to get him to notice you and the things you did early in your relationship that made him want to be with you.
Good Luck.
2006-08-21 02:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
You apologized, not much more you can do. You're right though, a friend should see you were in need of support, and lend a hand.
Keep your head up, and your eyes open. Good things come in strange guises, perhaps someone will arrive for you. Good luck.
2006-08-21 02:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your time right now. Help your mother and if he can't sit by you over something like that then he isn't worth your time right now. Deal with him later, the most imporant thing is your mother's physical health and your mental health.
2006-08-21 02:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as heartless as this sounds, he may think that your other friends are the ones you need to go to for that. But if you're apologizing for going off on him, and have been making it clear that you're sorry.... if he can't get over that, he's not really mature enough for you to be dealing with.
2006-08-21 02:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Matt B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he's a good boyfriend, he would understand that you're extremely vunerable and your emotions are all scattered. now if he decided to ignore you like that...then he's being extremely childish and selfish. no need for someone like that in your life. you got more important things to worry about, like your mom.
2006-08-21 02:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not really car-he is just a boy. He only cares about him and your problems are not real to him. Find someone else.
Approx. same thing happened to me in 12th grade.
2006-08-21 02:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have our bad days. I feel sorry for what you're feeling right now, but always remember that things will get better. You'll see. Peace to you!
2006-08-21 02:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Merlin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the boy, and focus more on your mother.
2006-08-21 02:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋