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I am 29 years old and unmarried I have problem of premature ejaculation. If I start masturbation I got ejaculation in very few minutes (in a minute or few strokes). Twice I had intercourse with call girls. I used condoms, also in a minute I had an ejaculation after I started reciprocation.
In mind I have some doubts:
1. Is it the problem cause of I started masturbation in earlier stage at age 13or14?
2. If I see any por.n videos or picture and thought of sex. I found some wetness in my underwear (water like substance emit in my tip).
3. Is this normal to all men?
4. Psylogical problem?
How could I get cure from this problem. Please give me proper solution..
Thanks for all

2006-08-20 19:11:46 · 14 answers · asked by chapss_04 2 in Health Other - Health

14 answers

Premature ejaculation is a problem which is both psycological as well as physical. Try genital exercises to eliminate the physical problem, your problem of premature ejaculation may be solved. If not please do visit a doctor who is well trained on the subject.
Now having sex with call girls is not at all advisable in view of the dreaded disease A.I.D.S. even if you are wearing a condom.
Now to your questions, No premature ejaculation is not due to the fact that you have started masturbation at an early age.
The wetness that you find is normal in all males.

Dr. Mandar Arekar (M.D. Internal Medicine)

2006-08-21 21:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by doctorininternalmedicine1 2 · 0 0

wow ok . lets start fromthe begining ......
premature ejaculation happens its not caused by starting masterbation atthe age of 13 or every man i know wouldnt be able to get it up secondly there are excercises one can do to help pre. ejaculation for ex. masterbate ejaculate and try again this time when u feel like ur aboutt o ejaculate stop wait and proceed do this 2-3 times each time try holdingout longer if u cant its ok .... you may need to see a doctor to get a prescription medication to prolong ur erection or try a c0ck ring *found at most local sex shops * now for the **** the wetness is probably pre ejaculate which is the ejaculationlubricant for lack of better terminology right now completely normal.!!!
the erectile dysfunction could be caused by a psychological problem and if u see a doctor they may reccommend therapy .
is this situation normal probably more so than most would think , but it can be dealt with if u chose to get the help ..as for the call girls u may want to be in arelationship that may be part of the psyche of ur issue
good luck ...

2006-08-20 19:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by ashley 3 · 1 0

Dude Chill Man
Nothin to worry about
Read some stuff on premature ejaculation on the net.
Its not that a problem.U just have to overcome it.
Well the secreat to havefun during sex is to have it for a longer time.Whenever u doin it, just relax.Dont get excited very soon ,Divert ur mind , When u know that u gonna let it out.Stop for a while , relax , slow down or change the position.Dude Everything depends and lies in your mind. If u think u gonna let it go, it happens.Just relax , Let ur patner know when u wanna slow or when u wanna change positions .She'll definately understand after all even she wants to have it for a longer time
Just remeber its all in ur mind Just have control of it

Chill dude

2006-08-20 19:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremiah 2 · 0 0

The wetness is normal just as it is for a woman. Try getting some type of jell that decreases the sensation. You can find these at adult stores. The jell or oil will help you last longer. Good Luck

2006-08-20 19:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by LIFE-SAVER 2 · 0 0

Depends on how much fluid were talking about. It could be normal. Men, all men have premature fluid. This is to go over any piss still in there so when the full ejaculation happens, the piss doesn't kill the sperm.

Has nothing to do with masturbation early in life. I would go to All experts.com. Find your category and ask some one who might know more.

2006-08-20 19:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

The Homeopathic remedy ACID PHOS 1X thrice a day two drops in a glass of water to be taken sip by sip during your meals thrice a day report back with your progress and conditions after three days while continuing the use of the medicine. No Chocolates Coffee Mints and Red Meat while taking homeopathic Remedies.
Take care and God Bless you !

2006-08-20 19:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think using por.n wouldn't help you prolong your ejaculation, its like you are training yourself to finish quickly.

Try googling ways to prevent premature ejaculation.

I never really had a problem with this, but I have a friend who swears stopping and going works. Like when you feel you will ejaculate then you stop and hold it. Just keep practicing that.

2006-08-20 19:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Find a loving, understanding partner with a good sense of humour and a lot of patience to help with the start/stop thing. Once you are having loving sex and not just satisfying lust, you'll find a lot of the problems go away on their own.

2006-08-20 19:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0 0

There is nothing to worry about it. Its a normal problem.

This might because of loosening of the muscles of your member.

See a good doctor (Not some Dr. Sheikh or any wall postered dr.) and he will prescribe you some capsules that will help you in tightening and strengthening of your muscles there which will definitely help you in holding that for a longer time.

regards.

2006-08-20 19:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Abdullah A 3 · 0 0

my ex boyfriend has these problems and some. he got to the point of hiding in a bathroom for hours at a time. just practice self control. it is normal for some guys but i know it has to be embarrasing and frustrating. it will probably take time but a lot of practice but once you lengthin out the time you will notice it gets easier im sure. love,, jamie

2006-08-20 19:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by mamyjamie 1 · 0 1

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