are the top 3 things that women go for is looks, money and sexual performance?

Answer 1

no..... they just go for

IS IT HARD OR NOT (in 60% cases)

Answer 2

Yeah. Immature women who are attracted to immature men.

But if a women is looking for a serious relationship and a serious partner and if that woman is confident and secure then she will look for a man with great personality, a man who is successful and continues to have goals and dreams, and a man who is responsible and driven in all that he does.

After that has been sorted out the thing that will keep that woman to that man is his honesty and commitment and the way he treats her and those she loves including his self.
Yes a lot of women do look for looks at the beginning, but looks aren't everything, they can be lost....neither is money because that can also lost...and neither is sex because doesn't make for a great lasting relationship.

But as far as the "women" that want to have fun...they are the ones that go for the superficial. And the top superficial things are looks, money, and sex. But in the end they (as well as the man) don't get much out of it except for drama and unecessary stress.

Answer 3

if you are a good guy and have a great personality, all those other things just dont seem as important. when they have the great personality, just like the saying, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, they can seem the most handsome man in the world. and the giving of a simple flower can be better than a bouqet of roses given from a rich jack*ss. chemistry is big, and if you love that man's personality, you just know things are gonna go great for the two of you in bed. so sure those 3 things are important but its the man's character that really over powers all the others.

Answer 4

Well, i dont know who told you that, but i am not like that all. All i care about is the heart. I dont even judge a person on how they look or what they are, i judge them on how they treat me. If they are back stabbers and liars, ofcoz i dont really like them. But for me it has always been the heart.

But i would agree with what you have to say, most women, MOST, not EVERY. Not just women, even men, HUMANS itself judge people by their looks. Money and sexual performence, i have no comments.

You can see this clearly, people judge others by looks. Guys always go for the pretty slim girls, and well the girls who are slightly bigger and not as pretty to their eyes, will be just turn down. Same goes to the girls. But for me, i look at their hearts. To me, no one in this world is ugly, everyone is beautiful and special, the heart of a person shows how beautiful a person is.

Answer 5

Integrity, Intelligence, Chemistry

Answer 6

for me the top 3 things I look for in a man are: 1.) chemistry 2.) personality 3.) money ( I need a man who at least has a decent job;I mean let's be honest here, if you want to know the truth)

Answer 7

Money and social status. The same way it is in every culture. Don't underestimate how underhanded, mainpulative, decieving and dishonest they will be to obtain those things either. Whoever said only men could be that shallow obviously has never read any philosophy.

"Women are less than shallow" - Nietszche

Answer 8

well not for me they ain't.

I go for a nice personality and same beliefs and values. I go for someone who will respect me, treat me like a woman, protect me and support me.

Looks are a factor, but not as high.

And money? I don't care about money.

Sexual performance....i didnt have sex with my guy till i was married, so that was not part of it at all :)

Answer 9

no i think that is looks, behaviour and money for a long term relationship and sexual performance, money and looks in the shorter version.

Answer 10

I would say it differently- I think they look for security (financial, and longevity in a relationship), protection, and looks thirdly. The thing is, if you don't have all three of those things down pat, you've got a hard road ahead

Answer 11

Intelligence and behavior are at the top of other things that women go for.