im told im a very sweet guy, and that i have an innocent charm.
this is by mates gf's
is this bad, do i want to change that, kinda give a more tough look, or do girls like that kinda thing
When i talk to a chic i wanna stare in her eyes and smile and just listen, but find myself telling me to act tough look away, look macho, like im only semi interested or not really care. And then i feel like a knob, but i dont want a girl to think im some sissy
2006-08-20 18:53:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my gosh! there is totally nothing wrong with being sweet. like 9 out of 10 girls love that! i wouldn't worry about it at all, dont change a thing. trying to be someone you aren't or trying to change yourself might just get messed up and people might think something is like wrong with you sooooo... yeah, dont change.
2006-08-20 19:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no!! Girls like it when the tough acting guys crack down and stare into there eyes it gives us a sense of control and power. And it's nothing better then glaring into someones eyes that are of interest to you. And they are just words they dont make the man the man makes the words. So continue to be sweet and innocent and charming!! Its what we like about the tough acting guys!!
2006-08-20 19:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, not some tough guy.
You would look more like a sissy pretending to be some macho guy, than if you were to just act like your regular self.
If you are a sweet guy with an innocent charm, then in time you will attract a nice, sweet girl who will care for you as you are, not for who you are pretending to be.
Good Luck~*
2006-08-20 19:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is pretty bad. Women want men to be a little nice to them, but if you're too nice they lose respect for you in a hurry. To avoid that, just be at ease and grin once in a while when you talk to a girl. Crack pleasant jokes every time anything serious comes up in the conversation. Also, don't stare at them; definitely look into their eyes, but for no more than about two seconds at a time. Good luck!
2006-08-20 19:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being sweet. The innosent part needs to be slightly modified. Just be more confident and the innocence will seemingly disapear. Dont wait for things to happen to you, make them happen!
2006-08-20 19:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you like to get laid or not. girls screw guys that act like they dont care as much and kinda mysterious. the sweet guy is the shoulder to cry on, and maybe get a relationship down the road.. also count out the bible study if you want an attractive girl... play it smooth until you've known them long enough to be yourself.
2006-08-20 19:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe girls want a bit of both. it's like a balance. i dated a complete macho guy and he was a loser! dated a guy that was all in the romantic thing...didn't work out because i felt i had more balls than he did. so you need to be a lil both. i think if you're too romantic all the time, it kinda loses its charm. you know? and if you're always macho...well, you're a jerk. so be both!
2006-08-20 19:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doomed being sweet means you a nice guy. Innocent means means your not a bad boy. that means girls will like you only as friend and nothing more. get ready t oget dumped often because girls don't like sweet and innocent guys for boyfreinds no challenge.
2006-08-20 19:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 12:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thays a really good thing. GIRLS LOVE THAT IN A GUY. Don't change. Stay yourself.
2006-08-20 19:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋