2006-08-20 18:52:20 · 37 answers · asked by sweet_hon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on your beliefs. everybody has their own point of view. it's actually up to you to believe if you want to have sex before or wait after marriage. whatever you choose, it doesn't make you a horrible person.
and don't get aids.
2006-08-20 19:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess in reality it all comes down to what you believe. I am a Christian so I waited till I was married, and i do not regret that at all. My husband on the other hand, had slept with a past girlfriend before me (he is a christian now). He regrets it. The close connection you form when you do make love, is a hard one to get over. You lose a part of you, if the person you first experience this with, leaves.
I was taught that sex is a gift from God for those who are married. God created sex, and he wanted us to wait till marriage, so that we wouldnt go through the hurt of breakups after sex.
Its like a present. Its nicely wrapped and has a beautiful bow on it. Say you did have sex before marriage and you and ur partner broke up...adn that happened again and again...each time a bit of the wrapping paper or the bow, is removed from the gift.
On your wedding night...you get out your gift (sex) to give your husband....how do you think he will react or feel, receiving a gift that has been torn at, and looks worthless...
Thats just my views on it all. I am happily married to the one man i ever had sex with...which was after marriage. I am happy and proud of myself.
Think about it.
2006-08-20 19:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with someone you love is never a bad thing. Marriage in current situation, it's no more able to stop two persons from going separate way.
2006-08-20 19:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad.... and that's not just my opinion either.... if you talk to people that didn't wait until they were married (if they are happily married), they'll pretty much all tell you that they wish they had waited, that it would have been worth it....and if you talk to the ones that did wait, they all seem to tell you that it's the best decision they made. Sex is appealing, and a natural desire, but as desireable as it is, if all the people on the other side of being married can tell you that it's better to wait, then there's definitely something to that. I say it's bad because of my moral convictions, but there are plenty of people who say it's best to wait for reasons other than that.
And for the people that will tell you "but how will you know if they are good at sex or not?"... if you have nothing to compare them to, you won't be able to tell if they are good or not. You won't CARE.
2006-08-20 19:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Matt B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex given or received at any time is always good...besides..if you do it before marriage at least you will know if he, or she, is good enough to keep you satisfied...I hate it when you wait and then find out later that the person is a lousy lover...cuz then you're stuck with them, or have to go thru a nasty divorce if you ever want the chance again to meet a really good lover...
2006-08-20 19:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For being a Muslim i am gona give you a good answer that it is also for bidden in all relegeion so it is for sure that sex before marriage or doing sex with some one that is not your wife is not good ok bye
2006-08-20 19:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by riaz ahmad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex before marriage is not good why because there may be chances to cancel their marriage due to their desire satisfaction.
2006-08-20 19:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur luv towards her/him is pure you will automatically indulge is sex,if it is not even then but it all depends ur intension.in my opinion sex is a second name of love-if u sleep naked with ur partner a very night and wake up in the morning with the same feelings like it was before then ur sex converts into love forever.sex is meetings of two souls to dwels forever into one.sex brings closeness in each other.dont call it by name "sex" rather call it love making.thanks
2006-08-20 21:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by rewash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's good because you get to know the person in a more intimate manner. you also figure out if you like what they can do for/to you in bed. i think that knowing what to expect sexually from a partner, will be better than going in pretty much blindfolded ans discovering that they do nothing for you. if you are happy sexually you will be generally more happy about being in the marriage.
2006-08-20 18:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before marriage having a sex is n't good to young sturs like me
& most of people like my friends also because world is growing is so fast at now a day so many dieases like H.I.V(AIDS)
but so people using codoms is n't good also .all my friends beaware of sex with one only girl before marriage or after marriage
2006-08-20 19:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by idly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋