Is this just a phase? Whats going on? All she thinks about is black guys. Let me state she is white and jst turned 13 a few days ago . I mean im i white guy and i think J Lo is hott but i dont think every black girl out there is hott. Im not being racial i jst gotta know what the hells going on. Let me also state i am her older brother and i dont like the thought of my little sister being with boys at all and exspecially boys of any other race but white and i think all guys that have little sisters can relate somewhat to that. Is this a compolsisve disorder cuz i mean she just doesnt like black celebs but any random black dude that walks by her weather he be fat, lanky, jacked, skinny, small, tall,or jst flat out ugly. My family has tried talkin to her and so has her friends and now she is starting to loose friends becuz they think she being creepy. This has become frusterating and sad for my family.This has been going on for about 8 or 10 months now and it seems to be gettn worse.
2006-08-20 18:51:15 · 14 answers · asked by Bill D 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Is this a compolsive disorder or phase? How can we stop.
2006-08-20 18:51:57 · update #1
I mean how can we stop it?
2006-08-20 18:52:21 · update #2
Put yourslef in my shoes.
2006-08-20 19:00:18 · update #3
And once again im not racial and neither is my family.
2006-08-20 19:02:09 · update #4
And for those using the blonde excuse i would be much happier if she liked blonde guys.
2006-08-20 19:03:47 · update #5
Hey there !! Hmmm, it sounds like she might be doing this for attention, and you're being racist, just read your statements.
Anyway, there really isn't anything you can do, and try not to take it personal.
Many times when someone we know and love is interested in another race we take it personally, because we see it as rejection.. You're younger sis' loves you; but, it sounds like she's just trying to get on your nerves, and from the sound of things, she is succeeding !!!
People of different races have been sleeping, marrying, loving ,sexing each other for THOUSANDS of years, there's really isn't anything you can do about this, although, you might ask yourself, and her, of course, what turned her off from white guys in the first place...
Have you ever sat down with her privately, and inquired as to why she's so attracted to men of colour, without getting upset ?
The best thing you can do for her is to make sure that the black guy she eventually will go out with is a good guy, who has her best interests at heart, but wait - she's only 13 !!! She shouldn't be dating at all !!!
Anyhoo ...
Keep in mind that she's your little sister and she's probably just provoking you, ok ?
Peace and blessings
2006-08-20 19:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by bubletish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you just made a racist comment about your all other races in general??? I am mixed race, and I wouldn't be here if people of different colours didn't f***. Are you saying that we need to try to keep people pure? That you don't want any mutting in human society? And JLo isn't white, she is hispanic. Look into facts before you judge them too quickly. It's this seperation of races that causes racist f***s like yourself. By the way your sister is just as racist for only being into one type of race so it isn't just you.
2006-08-20 19:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by 9987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she has a problem there since it sounds too obsessive.....but first of all, YOU need to get over your racial prejudice ("i dont like the thought of my little sister being with boys at all and exspecially boys of any other race but white")... It seems YOUR problem is worse than her problem...
2006-08-20 18:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
How is this a disorder??
So what she likes all types of guys.. she believes in variety...
No one really believes in sticking to theyre race anymore...
You should get over it its her life... just as some black guys are bad white guys are.. mexicans and so on and on
So dont act as if youre race is superior...
cause to be honest you dont know what you are you just have lighter skin... you could be irish dating an australian or indian.. thats race
you get what Im saying?
2006-08-20 18:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by proudvirgin 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a bit possessive or over protective.I think the more you try to stop her the more rebellious she gets.Just talk to her like any good brother would advise their sister and move on with it.If that's the path she chose then let it be.Atleast you warned her.
2006-08-20 19:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Joe P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't a girl like who she wants to like? Although, it is strange if she likes any black guy that walks past her... and you do sound kind of racist when you say you don't want her to associate with a boy of any other race but white? Just a thought.
2006-08-20 18:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jell-O = ♥ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you can't choose the color of person she likes. But she does sound obsessive . She is only 13 and should only allow her to have guys at your home with parents there, no matter what race they are.
2006-08-20 19:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ddi anyone ever try to stop you from dating a blonde or a brunette?? What about a tall or short girl??
If black guys are her preference, then that's her choice....
2006-08-20 18:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
sound a bit closed minded there, So what if she prefers black men - no differant than someone preferring blonds
2006-08-20 18:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by allison_smith0 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe try understanding her at first why she doesn't like white guys
you and your family should try to get her to like people from all ethnicity instead of getting her to dislike black people
2006-08-20 18:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Rock 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋