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Question

Hey girls, how are you?

I just want to ask that what first thing you look in a guy? And if you like him then which way would you prefer to let him know about this?
What things do you want in a guy for good relationship?

Thank U sweeties..... Byeeeeeee.....TC

Answer 1

Thanks for asking how us girls are. I'm doing well, and I hope everything's going well for you too.

Obviously you're first attracted to a person by looks, but for myself personally I'd date a guy who was more average looking but had a good personality than a guy who had stellar looks but was a dud. Physically what attracts me to a guy is his eyes, smile and how he carries himself (like if he seems mature or not).

For the second question you asked... unfortunately I'm rather shy, so have a very hard time telling a guy if I'm interested :(

As for the third question, I'd like a guy who is respectful esp. to women (how a guy treats his mom is usually an indication of how he'll treat a gf or a wife, so I've heard), has a good sense of humor, and who will love me for who I am rather than try to change me. Also, I want someone who will be honest with me and trust me the same way I'd grow to trust him. I think things like that are important if you want a good relationship to last.

Good luck to you on finding that special girl if you haven't already!

Answer 2

First thing I look for in a guy: Authentic personality, good manners, treats others with courtesy, sense of humor, taller than me (which is easy since I'm short), something in common with me, and I know this sounds shallow, but it's just based on biology and survival of the species: he can't be "ugly." When a guy makes eye contact with me and there's a spark (or he happens to have really nice eyes, or better yet, both), that really catches my attention.

I would prefer to let him know about "this" by starting a conversation and eventually offering him my number.

For a good relationship, the guy must be loyal and honest, maintain a sense of humor, play well with others (especially treat our families and friends with respect), not let himself go too much (i.e. stay healthy and fit - don't turn into some lazy, American football-watching, alcoholic, chain smoking, smelly slob), and we will need to have fun together and stay in love even when the relationship gets "comfortable" and not as romance-crazy. Of course, romance is an important component to any relationship as well. Finding a guy who won't cheat seems difficult, and I'm not trying to sound bitter and pessimistic, but that's just a fact of life these days. Guys are naturally attracted to many women and more and more of them seem to be acting on their impulses these days (especially in this country).

I hope I answered your question ok, sweetie.

Answer 3

I look for a lot of things, first off physical- thats just natural. Eyes and smile are the first things. Then I notice his personality when I start to talk to him. If I like him, I just talk a whole lot and flirt a little. Touch his arm and stuff.

A good relationship is built on trust and communication. I'm not always right and he doesn't always have to agree with the things that I say, but I expect to be listened to. To try new things and to bend a little.

Answer 4

Well I look for a sense of humor and a nice smile, I also like a guy with mystery. When I like a guy I usually play the shy girl act((because I am very shy)) and I'll talk to them online or say a few words to them here and there when I see them..if they don't get the hint then I have one of my friends ask them about me. Yea its the chicken way out but its never failed me before !!

In a good relationship there is trust, love, companionship,honesty, and communication. Also there should be humor...no one wants a boring guy=/

Answer 5

1. Affection
2. Apreciation
3. Conversation
4. Trust
5. Financial needs

Answer 6

The first thing I notice is your smile!!!
I would let him know I'm feeling by joking around making comments about the two of us hangin out or making out.
All I ever ask is someone that can TELL THE TRUTH!!!
(It hurts just not as much as you lying then me finding out you lied) Honesty thats all if you cheat it can be over looked if you are willing to admit you did that first time I ask you. Not hard!!!

Answer 7

Hey!! :) Okay first I look to see if he has a good personality. Nice, kind-hearted, FUNNY, and responsible and a hard worker. A nice smile, and kind eyes are always a plus. For a good relationship I like a guy who is trustworthy, loyal and fun to be around but mature.

:)

Smile and most importantly BE YOURSELF!! Girls like that, be confident but not cocky because arrogance is as much of a turn-off as low-self-esteem is! GOOD LUCK!! :)

Answer 8

The first thing i look in a guy is - his way of talking,that matters a lot for me.
If i like a guy i would let him know,by smiling at him a lot and finding some excuses to touch him.

Answer 9

im an athlete so i notice a guy when they can play sports too or if they're funny.
i usually go for guyys who can play basketball or soccer.
my guy has to be funny. cause when im depressed i dont need someone to cry on. i need someone to lift my mood.

when i like a guy i dont straight up say i like you. i give him signs that tell him and i flirt. also when we talk i give hints that say yeah i like you ask me out.

i need a funny, honest, and open guy.
i also need a guy who can tolerate my weird moodswings. i always have life mood swings where i think about my life and think maybe there's something wrong or im not doing something right and i get all philiosiphical. i need a guy who can stand me when i have problems.
i wanna guy who will tell me when something bothers him. and i dont have to try to read his mind.

Answer 10

Hello, I'm fine thanx for asking.

I like tall guys, 6'0 and over. I like a guy who makes me laugh, can hve a good time, is a good listener, caring/loving, respectful. Someone I can hve a serious conversation with and one who loves and accepts me for me.
Money is not a big deal, looks don't matter either, as long as they hve nice personalities.

Take care