Okay my girlfriend's mother doesn't like the idea of me and my girl going out, the thing is that i am 21 and she is 24, and dont get it we been going out for 2 years and she still has that problem, she would always get mad with her and wont talk to her, i mean i dont like that , any ideas peace.....
2006-08-20 18:30:57 · 22 answers · asked by loopnet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away from her
2006-08-20 18:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the mother some flowers....mow her yard, offer to do something for her. It's not you she doesn't like honey, it's the idea of someone taking her baby that she's deemed not good enough. SO you need to show her that you are good enough, which is going to require some major butt kissing. Two years is an awefully long time though, now that I think about it, it might be something you are doing that rubs her the wrong way. If that's the case, without your girlfriend present, go to the mother's house and ask. Explain to her that you have nothing but the best of intentions when it comes to her daughter and you want to make things right between the two of you.
2006-08-20 18:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That mom is disgusting and a terrible woman who would not have any little ones. curiously she is very selfish and positioned her very own needs above the desires of her daughter. it rather isn't the 1st situation like this & heavily isn't the final, yet this would possibly not end nicely in any respect. the mummy desires to place that toddler up for adoption and if she needs any relationship along with her daughter, she will have the means to no longer communicate of it. i do no longer recommend mendacity, yet while the toddler is observed out, an omission of the data might probable be terrific. you in addition to mght would desire to inform them (one after the different) with reference to the herpes, incredibly the mummy via fact it may effect the being pregnant. I doubt that the two of them might tell the different with reference to the herpes, does not appear as if they are that close anyhow. Oh yeah, while it rather is settled (assuming the toddler isn't saved) you may desire to excuse your self from their lives and on no account practice your face around them lower back. The daughter merits a greater clever guy and mom.
2016-09-29 12:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother always fights for the interest of her children. There is a prevailing idea that the boy should be older than the girl or at least her age .. Be patient and prove to her mother that you are qualified and that the age difference is not important and do not attack her.
2006-08-20 18:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys obviously need your own apartment if you cant afford well you will have to get jobs and work on getting your own place together I dont know why?..some people so hung up on age..My suggestion ignore the mother until you guys get your own place other than that well you will have to put up with it..I was older than my boyfriend and its been 7 years and his family still dont talk to me..some families suck...
2006-08-20 18:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well parents will be be parents i dont know anything really to tell you but all i know is try and show her you really do care for her daughter and will always love her no matter what or maybe you should sit down and have this conversation with your girlfriends mother and get your point acrossed
2006-08-20 18:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how my boyfriends mother is...well...his whole family...They think I'm not good enough for him, but they don't even know me...That could be it with her...That or she just doesn't like the idea of her being with anyone....
2006-08-20 18:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mom is jealous cause she thinks your hot and wants to date you too, so tell the mom that you'll date her and her daughter at the same time.
2006-08-20 18:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both old enough to do what you want to do. maybe after 2 years its time to either move in together or get married.
2006-08-20 18:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend needs to tell her how it is. sombody needs to stand up to her. but maybe you need to find out what the problem is ask her why she dosent like you and if she has a valid reason like you need a job or something fix it.
2006-08-20 18:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by q-fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter what mother thinks because you are both of legal age
2006-08-20 18:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋