ive been friends with this girl i work with for about a year and ive just started havin feelings for her i know i want to tell her but just not quite sure how to say w/o comin on too strong
2006-08-20 18:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by cowboy76360 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you have feelings for her and explain how it came to be. Tell her how you love being with her, the little things she does that puts a smile on your face. How you work your butt off or make time just to see her, if only for a few minutes. Something like that. Just don't say I love you. If she feels the same way then work with that and you'll know when to say I love you. But for now take it slow and just explain how you feel.
2006-08-20 18:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God that is awesome!
Congrads, I would say to you, just tell her with a confidence and if you know this woman for a year your should be confident that she won't take it to strongly. However, I know that If this woman doesn't feel the same way she may take it in a freaked out manner. And I would not tell her that you love her and all this other stuff. I would start of small. Start by sending her cards every day or every week send her gifts and tell her its from a secret admirer. Get her mind jogging and thinking, and then tell her because She'll want to know. It leaves the door open for her to hear you. Just a suggestion.
2006-08-21 01:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nyltza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey cowboy,
I would start off with asking her out outside of work. This way you get to know each other and it lets her know that maybe you want more. Find out what she likes (coffee, jazz, sporting events) and suggest you guys go together. After you are dating you should know if your feelings are getting stronger and if they are returned.
Hope this helps and I hope it goes well for you and your girl.
2006-08-21 01:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by tweetyb_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you spend some alone time with her as just friends to see if there is potential for a relationship to happen and to also find out how she feels about you.
2006-08-21 01:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you'r truely interested take a moment in you'r chat with her and see if she'll go have coffee or what ever you's drink .don't ask her out any where fancy till she says yes over coffee,or what ever.don't ask her out to a bar just a coffee house type scene.good luck/
2006-08-21 01:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by connie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out together alone instead of work for a change how can you be alone at work?? the nwhile spending time alone together come out and tellher how you feel about her and most likely she is feeling the same way as you are for her. . . good luck!!!
2006-08-21 01:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask her out to dinner or something like that. Intimate setting you will be able to gauge whether she feels the same or even make it easier to tell her how you feel.
2006-08-21 01:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and out with the words in a relaxed condition.
2006-08-21 01:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always just drop subtle hints; smile at her whenever you speak, find any excuse to talk to her; ask her out to lunch or something...simple stuff.
2006-08-21 01:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCE YOU BEEN FRIENDS WITH HER AND YOU WORK
WITH HER, THEN JUST CASUAL ASK HER OUT TO LUNCH
OR COFFEE. ETC, AND GO FROM THERE. THERE A LOT
OF THINGS YOU CAN TALK ABOUT AT WORK. TAKE IT
SLOW, AND SEE HOW IT GOES.
2006-08-21 01:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋