ok two relationships ago i dated a woman for 2 years and we never had sex. she didnt want to she wanted to wait. and i respected her. now that me and her are over with. i want my next relationship to be sexually involved. But i dont want to come off as just another a$$ hole guy. i just dont want to wait another 2 years. and im not gunna just go have a fling? wht do you think about this
2006-08-20 18:06:46 · 23 answers · asked by 94Zdemon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that each relationship that we have teaches us something important about ourselves and what we can and cannot put up with in a relationship. Now, you have learned that you can not go for 2 years without sex and be happy about it, but you have also learned that you can go for somewhat long periods without sex and still care deeply for the woman you are with.
I don't think you need to do anything about this - you date and when you click you know it. Now you can expect the "click" to have a sexual component or it just won't be there for you. Great. Be patient and it will come.
I will say, don't settle for less. So often it seems that we make these types of decisions and then universe sort of says Are you Sure? by offering exactly what we are trying to get away from. If we accept, even temporarily, it sets us back - so be strong. You don't have to be mean to women over it. If you are not sparking in a relationship you tell her that. If she asks is it sex you can even say Sexuality is a big part of the right relationship for me. What could she say to that? If she is mean about it, let it roll off your back - you already know she isn't the woman for you.
Peace!
2006-08-20 18:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, see if you desire your next relationship to be sexual, like that's all you're thinking about, don't get in a relationship in the first place. Just find a girl that you like, flirt, see what happens. If you bang her, hooray. You got the pussy you so despretly craved. If not, go for another girl. Keep doing it until you're not desperate for sex, then go have a relationship. It'll work much better that way.
2006-08-20 18:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Poopdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your not wrong to want it...its human nature to want to have sex. Are you currently dating someone now and if so do you know if she wants to wait to have sex??If she does then you have to think..do you really care about this girl??If you do then you should wait and if you don't then there are plenty of girls out there who wouldnt mind being in a sexually active relationship.
2006-08-20 18:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very rare to find someone who wants to wait in a relationship these days. I'm currently dating someone who said that she wanted to wait until she was married but only told me this after we had sex a couple of times. So I'd say that your odds are pretty good.
2006-08-20 18:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you enter the next relationship be open and honest with this person about what you want. If she wants to wait for two years..get the hell outa there!!
2006-08-20 18:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are asking the wrong question, love should be the reason behind all relationships, and good things come to those who wait, believe me it is true, sex is a plus that comes with love, look for love and the rest will fall on its own.
2006-08-20 18:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that was the girl's choice not to have sex with you and i'm glad you respected her and now if you don't want that to happen again go for a girl not like that and the rest is up to you
2006-08-20 18:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature to want sex.
just try and get the mood right, nice romantic atmosphere , lots of kisses and stuff but never force though.
Is a natural thing between two people who love eachother.
good luck
2006-08-20 18:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! you better wait! there's more to love than just sex it's about how god you maintain your relationships
2006-08-20 18:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jobo N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋