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I've talked to this chick online for about a month, and things were going really well, she reckoned i was handsome and she was instigating the idea of going out to places with me.

Recently she asks for my phone number and then sms's me about 3 times to see how i'm going/what i'm up to. So I later ask her if she maybe wanted to meet up sometime on the weekend just for a chat to see what she's like in real life, and she subtly bars me off. Since then she's been acting cold, and i'm left thinking wtf. Is she just using me for attention?

2006-08-20 18:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Probably rushed things. I mean chatting is base one and then phone number is base two and usually u have to wait a while for base three which is actually meeting. Maybe she felt like you rushed in for the kill by asking to meet. Or she is really young and was lying to you and you asked to meet and she doesn't want you to find out she is really 14 or something.

2006-08-20 18:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0 0

Sounds like she just likes to keep you stringing along. She may have a boyfriend or may have lied to you about other stuff that she wants to keep hidden. If she's not interested in a real relationship with you, then your better off breaking off the relationship unless you are willing to just be friends.

Why not come right out and ask her why she backs off when you want to meet her? If she ignores your questions or beats around the bush, she's just not interested.

2006-08-21 01:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by TMH 4 · 0 0

maybe she's getting too comfortable just talking over the phone and online. She may have some body or beauty issues and may think you wont like her in person.

2006-08-21 01:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by megs 2 · 0 0

well she is possibly wanting to have this relationship limited to internet and phone calls only. just keep it that way so that it continues. trying to change the status of relation may end it.

2006-08-21 01:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0 0

honestly get over it if she can't meet you after all the talking you 2 did then it was not meant to meet each other

2006-08-21 01:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe its a fat chick, who just doesn't want to show herself, or she realized what a handsome guy you are and thinks that she is not good enough

2006-08-21 01:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you should cut your loses and she is one. Sorry but she doesn't sound like she wants to meet you in person.

2006-08-21 01:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by tweetyb_76 3 · 0 0

Probly just scared or shy.
Give it a good solid try and then move on.

2006-08-21 01:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Clawndike 4 · 0 0

maybe she never intended on meeting in person. don't take it person. maybe she's scared, too young, too young, too fat, too skinny, taken, married, or maybe, she's an attention wh()re like u said

2006-08-21 01:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0 0

it sad to say but some folks are just that wy dont waste your time you got bettr fish to find

2006-08-21 01:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0 0

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