My aunt and ucnle r fight verbaly, i fear it may get physical!!!! they keep egging each other on! they wont stop wat do i do?
2006-08-20 17:56:26 · 14 answers · asked by saru 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You didn't give enough information for me to help you. Where are your parents? Do you live with your aunt and uncle or are you visiting? What is your age? Do they have children? Has there been a history of physical abuse between them?
If I knew some details, I would be able to guide you. Feel free to email me if you want help.
2006-08-20 19:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is little you can do. Until it does get physical the cops won't do anything either - their hands are tied unless the act has been committed (unless you call them with a disturbing the peace complaint which probably won't do anything but piss off your aunt and uncle). I doubt they will listen to any warnings that you may give them. Believe it or not, though, some relationships go on for a very long time like this and some couples seem to prefer it. The relationship will dissolve when it is ready but has to play itself out first. If you have to be around it, then be prepared to call the cops if it does get physical. Warn your aunt especially if you see any signs that it has become physical that she needs to seek help in a battered shelter.
2006-08-21 01:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by redpatski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them to sit together so you can talk to them at the same time. Tell them that all the yelling and screaming and verbal fighting is very upsetting to you and is scaring you. Ask them to promise to stop yelling at each other for one week. It would be almost like a truce but it is more important that they know how much this is upsetting you.
2006-08-21 01:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried that it will get physical you should call the police, they will help difuse the situation or try calling another family member who can come over and help, but stay out of the way, you might get hurt if you try stop their fighting.
2006-08-21 01:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call the police! so no one gets hurt...sometimes in these cases people end up threatening to kill themselves or the other person and will take out the children first. My nieces friend has gone through this several times...her parents fought and the father tried to kill the kids than himself. So get the police involved so no one gets hurt!
2006-08-24 23:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a frying pan, a 22, a steak knife, or anything breakable, hit them with it, and they'll listen to you honey. Went through the same thing with my sister and her husband. A HOT frying pan makes 'em really pay attention and calm their asses down.
2006-08-21 01:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ambrosianator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your aunt and uncle they are scaring you or tell them to grow up.
You could ask one of them to go somewhere with you, get them away from each other and give them some time to cool down.
2006-08-21 01:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Saani_G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they are not fighting, tell them how upsetting it is to you, to see them fight. tell them exactly how you feel. and hope for the best../ remind them that something made them fall in love,and they should try and get that back.
good luck
2006-08-21 01:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set back watch them. my grandparents use it to the same thing and the would call each other names and they never got physical
2006-08-24 17:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them fight man. Why u care ??? It's their personal matter.
2006-08-21 01:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋