i am 20 and this little problem could just be that i am very horney being 20 and still a virgin(damn it!)
any how my problem is this. one of my dads friends has a wife i would love to just throw on to the nearest flat surface and make her scream in pleasure. (actualy he has 2 friends like that but i see this one more so i have his wife in my mind more than the other guys wife) and even though i try to be honorable(hard to do after being self distructive after a year) i just cant seem to get past the though of making love to her! :O also i think she would welcome the attenction of a young man (shes not even 33 i think) i just dont think she actualy would, she would flert possably but shes too nice to spread hers legs for some one other than her husband. and what makes it better for me (bad for her) is that her husband kind of a dich and kind of mean to her so i would have a better chance to do her.
so tell me if i am right
i should start away from thes thoughts correct?
2006-08-20 17:39:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away*
2006-08-20 17:39:49 · update #1
no your not abnormal.your perfectly normal but you may need to think about the consequences of sleeping with her.
2006-08-20 17:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laughs well you certainly have your hands full
And also very lucky if you are a virgin you dont have to worry about having unwanted pregnancies,you can learn how to
meditate to keep your mind always wondering to sexual thoughts.
You can look at all the beautiful woman you want.
You are so very young and have a wonderful sense of humor.
Just keep your mind on pure things and when it is time it will happen for you with the right woman.
If this married woman goes for you in terms of more than just admiration, then its bad morals as far as im concerened.If she knows your a virgin then she is playing head games be careful.
I dont know it this helps any and Im just being honest.
Best luck to and when you do finally become sexually active doent forget protection.
You should surround yourself with good friends.
2006-08-20 17:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me, based on my limited knowledge of guys. But yeah, you should stay away. You are what you think about, and your thoughts really need to be on something else. You're 20, maybe you should move out and get your own place; not have the temptation around so much. Focus on starting your own life instead of your pants.
By the way, I love that you're a virgin. My first was at 21 and my guys was 22, he was a virgin too. We had been dating for a couple years before we had sex; he thought we were going to get married. It was such a wonderful thing to share that with him. Wait until you find a special girl.
2006-08-20 17:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are feeling is normal. I think most young men have fantasies about their friends' mother or friends of their parents.
However, that being said, you are best not to try and act on those feelings. Not only will it get you into trouble, but it could cause a wedge between your father and his friend.
2006-08-20 17:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM THAT WOMAN. I'M AN OLDER WOMAN AND I DID WHAT YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT DOING. BUT WITH A GUY OF COURSE. HE AND I HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR 8 YEARS AND HE IS A VIRGIN. HE IS 29 AND YES HE CAME TO ME WITH THE OFFER OF BEING HIS FIRST BUT I DECLINED. DON'T DO IT YOU WILL REGRET IT AFTER IT SAID AND DONE.
2006-08-20 17:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by toni stark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Correct.
2006-08-20 17:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by DivinePath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't go there. You have no idea what your going to get your self into. Find a girl your age or older but don't mess with a married woman.
2006-08-20 17:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by aracely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u retarded? ur gonna cause problems (possibly a divorce) just because u wonna bang some dudes wife? Find another girl...not married. lol.
2006-08-20 17:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that's normal. You think a women is hot. You're normal. You're if you start trying to flirt with her but digging her is cool.
2006-08-20 17:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** well either go for it or write me heres my email address and lets see if we could work something out lol april_marie1987@yahoo.com....because for one im a virgin to and maybe we could have a lil fun..lol
2006-08-20 17:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋