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Can men have a "girlfriend" just for sex but really be in love with someone else that lives far away? my ex and i broke up when i moved to college and he says he still loves me and wants to be with me but its just to hard right now because were living seperate lives. i know he cares about me because he frequently calls and visits but he has a new girl! can this girl really be just for sex? i mean my ex still tells me he loves me..misses me..and wants to be with me! im sooooo confused and emotionally torn because i still deeply love him and think about him 24/7. can men have girlfriends just for sex but still have feelings for someone else?

2006-08-20 17:37:30 · 10 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't be naive. He's enjoying the best of both worlds. Tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too.

2006-08-20 17:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0 0

Actually, yes, I think there are men that can do this, but even if they can sincerely love you while sleeping with someone else, that doesn't in any way make it right for him to do so, and I hope you would not consider staying with him just because you may have an out with him that his love for you is somehow still "pure".

Bottom line, regardless of how he sees this, or what he tries to convince you of, he's cheating. If he can do it now, he can do it anytime, don't think that this is just some sort of "phase".

2006-08-20 17:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1 0

He's getting the best of 2 women... WOW !!! Yes, a man can have sex with a woman he does not love, but this ain't the case here. You are letting him define the boundaries in your relationship, and you need to set your own boundaries. If he can't live up to them, then find another beau.

PS. Let me know what you decide. You need a faithful man.

2006-08-20 17:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1 0

If you really love him, are YOU with someone else? What are the chances he feels the same for you when he IS with someone else? I answered a question similar to this yesterday. I don't want to parrot myself here, so you can see the situation below and my answer. Basically, something to keep in mind always: pain is your body's natural response to something that is not right.

2006-08-20 17:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0 0

Scoundrel, take a contact from the pages of bill Clinton's memoirs and purchase her a sparkling gown, yet ask that she supply you the old one which you should for my area eliminate it. we would want to hate to work out the DNA evidence from her stained gown deliver an effective guy like you down. also supply her the morning after pill, lest you you opt for some b@stard newborn to go back out of the woodwork sometime to blackmail you. once you're particular that you're interior the sparkling on both fronts, you provides Julie the old heave ho (no pun meant).

2016-11-05 06:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by falls 4 · 0 0

seems pretty obvious to me. he just wants to bang both of you. he's a player. If you're truly still in love, then why don't u tell him to stay off other girls, and if he doesn't then you'll never go out with him.

2006-08-20 17:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

wanna find out where you stand? Tell him that you were thinking of getting a F*ck-buddy too....but he shouldn't worry cause it's just for sex right? ;P

then you'll see how he reacts

2006-08-20 17:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah L 3 · 0 0

He is a lying hound. Stay clear off him.

2006-08-20 17:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0 0

stupid, he just wants to have sex from both of you!

2006-08-20 17:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sure, but if he really loved you, why would he be hooking up with random chicks.

2006-08-20 17:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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