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2006-08-20 17:28:27 · 34 answers · asked by Shannen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Straight from the car, to your parents front door, and maybe, and maybe, after a really really good date ( no dutch, guy payed for everything, he opened your doors, pulled back your seat at the restaurant, and was not feeling you up) then maybe, you can give him a kiss goodnight, not a french kiss, maybe a quick 2 second kiss on the lips...you are 15 there are so many other things to enjoy other than a 10 minute (or less) hormonally charged, fumbling, let's not get caught sort of premature sex in a backseat of a car to a guy that probably is the captain of the football squad (that won't care after you give it up). He loves you until you give him what he wants, and if you both are virgins it will go badly, he won't know to take it easy and you might get pregnant. You want your first time to be when you aren't thinking with your crotch, and yes, women can do that too! You want it to be at least after high school, where you don't have to worry about what complications sex might give you. You could get pregnant or a STD. Hunny, you should wait. Kissing and that is it, but it could lead to more and I don't think that you are ready for it.
2006-08-20 17:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lyndsey H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly a 15 year in my opinon should stop at a hug.
I am not old fashioned but I do believe that since a 15yr old is so very young and has her whole life in front of her
I know you can wait for the best things when your mind and body develope to its full adulthood and potential.
My brother had his 1st child @ 15 so he had to be a man whether he was ready or not.
He wishes he waited.
2006-08-20 17:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel ready, you will be ready. But don't get hasty and give into pressure. This can lead to so many emotional problems I can't even begin to list. If you want my honest advice, just let nature take its course. You will know when the right time is to go all the way with someone. Just make sure its the right someone, and that they are fully worth giving yourself to.
2006-08-20 17:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by lavos1412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss good-night after going to the movies is as far as any 15 year old should go. If thats all these girls would do, then there wouldn't be any teenage mothers. GL & GB
2006-08-20 17:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you feel comfortable with and that should be without pressure from your significant one. Depends on your beliefs/morals too. Do you plan on not having sex till you're over 18 or until you're married? If you do decide to have sex please use protection only being 15 years old you're not ready to be taking care of a baby. I wouldn't suggest having sex at such a young age.
2006-08-20 17:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as far as u want to go. i would say around 16 or 17 take it all the way but 15 is pretty close too. i would say not all the way, maybe fingering and suckin. but not quite all the way yet.
2006-08-20 17:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you shouldn't be thinking about having sex. Dating/making out is one thing - sex is a whole different thing. Enjoy dating and having fun, but don't have sex just because a guy is pressuring you into it. Guys will say anything to get into a girl's pants - tell him you are waiting and if he 'loves' you he will wait.
2006-08-20 17:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm 15 also and personally my advice for you is to only go as far as you feel comfortable to go. Like i still find it awkward when i go to the mall with my little sister and we get like 20 year olds staring at us like we are older then we truly are. but i mean if you wanna act on what you feel comfortable with then go for it but remember once you lose your virginity you cant get it back
2006-08-20 17:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 15 year old should be in school thinking about homework and not sex!
2006-08-20 17:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm the same age, but i think that's way to early to have sex. I'm waiting for marriage. Because I don't want to give it up to someone and then split up with that person and regret doing it.
2006-08-20 17:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋