Why are so many women negative towards men?

Question

Its seems like so many woman have men defeated from the started. For example, I have many female friends will knowingly choose to date bad guys, and when I say bad, i mean drug dealing abusers. These same women, even though they choose to date scum, will complain that all men are sleazebags. They will also not give a good guy (good job, not a criminal, treats people well) the time of day. I've even had a few female friends tell me that "they dont want a guy to treat them well" and, like i said, they date scum and the complain about how all of us men are *******. It seems to me that if a girl is going to choose to not date good guy, and choose to date bad guys, she has no right to complain at all.

Sorry if this sounds sexist at all. Can anyone help me understand why women do this.

Answer 1

A woman who dates a man who treats her like **** does so because she has no self-esteem or confidence in herself and believes that is the best she can do.

I have never dated men like that. I deserve to be treated with respect and love and that is what I demanded from my boyfriends.

I am now married to a wonderful man who treats me as well as I treat him.

Not all women are negative towards men. Keep looking, it will happen for you. Good luck.

Answer 2

I say that alot of women and men too go through that dating bad girls and boys as away to not make a real commitment to someone more serious. I mean with the bad types you don't even have to do much to plz them but sex. But then after a while they realize that they want more than sex and the other person isn't willing to give them what they want. So they moan and groan and call opposite sex ******* and such. But I'm very willing to date a good guy in a heart beat. My thing is there are so many more guys out there with emotional issues that they always try to push them off on me. I'm not saying I don't have any issues myself but I tone it down when I meet new ppl, but the guys I keep meeting push me away and accuse me of doing this or that which I'm never close to doing in the first place. That is the only thing that gets me ticked off cuz they already use past experiences to use against me.

Answer 3

There are good men and bad men just like there are the same in women ,Some women don't know what they want , the bad guys are more of a challenge ,,they like the danger in them or they think they will be the one that will turn them around plus some women just don't care what they are just as long as they have a man in their life ..and to complain means they are bad ****woman.

Answer 4

Some women choose the bad men thinking they can in some way change them. They think the "good" ones are boring. Some women have been abused so much that it is second nature to them and they dont know how to handle someone who doesnt treat them like crap.

Answer 5

The ones they date are sleazebags. They are dating the wrong men and they think the Good guys are boreing. The Good Guys will treat them right.

Girls get messed up when they have sex and get dumped.Have Sex and get dumped. Have Sex and dump the guy.

If they would just keep their legs crossed and their pants on, They would like guys better because the guys who are users don't want a relationship. they only want the sex, Then they move on.

The nice guys are looking for the person and they are willing to wait for something so special.

God Bless You,

Answer 6

You know some pretty screwed up women. No woman with an ounce of self respect would behave like this. They obviously have no self esteem, and don't think they deserve to be treated any better than they are. Get out there an meet some normal women. BTW are your women friends strippers and prostitutes? That may account for your experience.

Answer 7

Well... I am not one of thos women. I've dated guys that were still in school and working at the same time. They all seemed like "good" guys. But you know what? They all turned out to be assholes. They pretend to like you, take you out on dates and when you don't put out... you're dissed for being frigid. Or when you finally do put out, you are also dissed because the girlfriend he never told you about is suddenly in town or suddenly exists again for them. Pff! Should I go on? There are good men out there... they're just like bacteria... they can only be seen under microscopes. And 95% of the "good guys" is gay. It's the gay era, the gay revolution. That's just the way it is.

Answer 8

I think tht the reason for a woman dating (in ur words, "scum") is becuz they think tht they dont deserve better, tht they dont deserve to be treated right, and therefor settle for whtever they can get, even if it's "scum".
Others might just date the wrong ppl just because they choose to, out of their own free will, in this case I don't think tht they hve any right to complain.
And ur right, not all guys are scum, I hve a wonderful boyfriend who treats me right.

Answer 9

not all women do (for example myself as well as my "girl" friends). It would be the same as All guys dating all "bad girls." I have no idea why any women would want to date such a guy especially if they are drug users. It's very rare that any guy treats a woman well AT ALL at least where i'm from....soooo perhaps you are just in the wrong crowd?

Answer 10

Women tend to attach themselves to the "Bad Boys" because of an imaginary thought or "Magical thinking" that they can rescue them. I agree with you in that they are women who are negative towards men. Also it could be that the women had a history of seeing the men in there lives neglect, abuse them and took advantage of them, so they don't respect themselves. And on top of it, they hate themselves. They are "projecting" the image of an absent father, maybe an abusive father, so that these men can fill that role in there lives. So they are confident women out there and my suggestion to all the women, Go to therapy.