I've been "Hanging out" with "D" for quite some time now. I really like him, and I'm pretty positive the feeling's mutual, but we're in no way a couple yet.
I'm going away to school soon (about 2 hrs away) and D says he'll come up every other weekend just to see me.
But at orientation I met and talked (alot) to another guy "A". He was fun, hilarious and very cute. Before I left he asked for my number and happily I gave it. He called me back as so I could have his number, but i missed that call.
It's been 6 days, I tried calling him 2 days later, but got no answer. Since then I've been camping with D (getting quite serious)
Should I try to call A again? I'm really falling for D, but we're still not a couple.
2006-08-20 17:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by Kella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way anyone can give you advice on this one. Regardless of what anyone says is right, or even what you think is right, the events surrounding this will influence your final decision. All I can say is ride it out and see what happens. When you said things got serious, how serious were they? If you guys are just friends or even just bed buddies, then it won't matter. You should ask D what he wants and go from there. As for the other "answers" you have recieved, you should be able to tell who is serious and who is just blowing air. Just go with it.
2006-08-20 20:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by randall w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was any other point in your life OTHER than college, then I would say "stay with your man". But I am going to give you the honest truth about college. You ready? ok....the worst thing anyone can do is go to college with a boyfriend/girlfriend. This is advice u are going to hear again and again. If your man came with you to college, that may be different, but are you really going to put up with "just on weekends" for the next 4 years? (or however long it will take)
Save yourself some heart ache, drama, and head ache and wait until you find someone at college that lives in the same zip code. You will probably go through soo many relationships in college that you will become an expert.
Do yourself a favor, call the guy. The worst case scenario is that you have a new friend at school (or even a booty call).
2006-08-21 00:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Knick101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if you ain't married you have the right to get to know as many people as you want. As long as you ain't sleeping with them at the same time or leadin both of them on it doesn't hurt to get to know someone else. Now if A didn't respond four days ago give him a call again and just leave him a message that you wanna talk to him couz he was interesting. If he's interested in gettin to know you that will make him call you, and if he's not leave it at that.
2006-08-21 00:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by "Q" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the one who u like batter but dont lead them both on. and depending on wether or not u have a history with D give him more considration u dont want to lose his friendship. but also think that it will more then likely be a long distance realtionship. Can u guys handle that. with A hes always going to be there or atleast most of the time. think about it each choice has good and bad things that go wit it.
2006-08-21 00:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by memooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if u r alrdy cmpng w D y bother w/ A?
2006-08-24 01:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by shelby f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
2006-08-21 00:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEFORE YOU CALL ANYONE YOU NEED TO BE SURE ABOUT WHO YOU WANT THE RELATIONSHIP WITH, SOUND
LIKE YOU DONT REALLY KNOW WHO YOU WANT TO BE
WITH.
2006-08-21 00:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know YOUR feelings.
2006-08-21 00:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with D forget the other guy... telll him u love him...
2006-08-21 00:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋