What should you do if all your friends hate the person whom you are dating? Should you do what they say and break up with them, or should you continue to follow what your heart is telling you?
2006-08-20 17:09:39 · 18 answers · asked by rini17331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although you need to follow your heart, if your friends are good friends and trusted friends, and they all feel the same way about him, then there may be something to what they are saying. Sometimes your friends can see something that you can't because you are infatuated with this guy. Your friends have known you longer - don't necessarily do what they say, but don't ignore them either.
2006-08-20 17:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always say follow your heart...it's the only way to know what's right. and it's the only thing that works every time. your friends are probably just jealous and if they were really your friends, they would learn to like him because you do and be happy for you. i hated one of my friend's boyfriends once but i learned to like him because she loved him and i was happy for her and didn't try to get her to break up with him ever. even if they don't learn to like him, they can at least be quiet about their opinions of him and act nice! good luck and don't ever go by what other people think...follow your heart because no one else can tell you your feelings.
2006-08-21 00:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by emilyy40193x3babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win!! your blinded by your heart and if your friends make you break up then you will be mad at them. If you stay with him your friends might not hang with you. the best thing you could do is sit down with yor friends and find out their objections for this boyfriend if they are sound then you have to make the decision but hear them out they may know things you don't!!
2006-08-21 00:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends you appreciate the advice and you're taking it into consideration but you have to make up your own mind. Then keep dating the guy as long as you want to date him. If they're true friends they'll be there for you no matter what and they'll stop giving you grief.
2006-08-21 00:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by HeavenLeigha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all friends are like that...that's how it was w/my ex...they didn't hate him but didn't like him...supposely...but i introduce them and my best friend went out with us a couple of times....and then in the end they "approved"...so just follow your heart...you know friends get a little jealous coz they know you will be spending time with your guy and not that much with them...so to work out everything...and it worked...just plan a day when it's just you and your friends...then other day with your bf/gf...don't worry! Good Luck!
2006-08-21 00:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make your friends happy but your own happiness comes first. Tell your friends that you appreciate their concern and you consider what they say to you that you're not ignoring them and you'll be careful so you don't get hurt. You're friends are saying this stuff because they don't want you to get hurt and they care about you. You also have to think about why they're voicing their concern too.
2006-08-21 00:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does this person make you feel? Do your friends have any serious gripes about them or are they just jealous. Only you can truly know if the relationship is good for you.
2006-08-21 00:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Hardt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends can feel like they are losing you to a new BF, Do whats in your heart.
2006-08-21 00:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing with me.my friends hate my bf and my bfs friends hate me. well if you were meant to be, you'll stay together. what anyone else says doesnt matter and you shouldnt listen to them, it only matters if you love each other. so do what your heart tells you. also, if they are really your friends, they should get used to them soon enough.
2006-08-21 00:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er.. You're the one in the relationship - Not them. It really shouldn't matter what they think of him/her, follow your heart.
Hold up a second...why not ask your friends what it is that they dont like about him/her, maybe they know something that you don't.
2006-08-21 00:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋