2006-08-20 17:06:51 · 20 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
As having a child it so isn't fair, but if you like Sylvia Browne, you'll know that as the child dieing means that it has fulfilled whatever it was meant to do upon this earth. I still don't think it is fair, but it is how the world turns.
2006-08-20 17:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can not answer that question and the answers you have been getting would not make me feel good about your question.
I am a father of three, two of which are still alive, my daughter passed away at birth two years ago, and I wondered that very same thing. But I fell back on my Faith! I know that I again will see my little Angel in Heaven because I have accepted the Lord as my Savior. That keeps me going everyday.
2006-08-21 00:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by cfmaniac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really no good answer to your question. I wish I had one, but I am not God. His ways are not our ways.
When I was in high school, a little girl that I had babysat for was hit by a trash truck that didn't see her while she was riding her bike. It's been 27 years, and I still don't understand why God chose to take her. It still grieves me to think about how tragic it was and is to her parents -- she would today be 34.
Is it fair? We can't see how it is fair -- but I guarantee you God had a good reason for it. And, if you trust in God, you will someday understand His reasons.
2006-08-21 00:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it doesn't sometimes. A lot of people who die, deserve to live and a lot of people who live deserve to die. But when young children die, its our loss not theirs. They go to a far better place.
2006-08-21 00:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by uselessadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get us to ask "How" they died. Then we can try to do something about it. The why you are looking for is really "Why do we live?" There is really no 'why' in death most of the time. Death doesn't usually accomplish anything. Dead soldiers can't occupy territory, so dying doesn't win wars. Fighting does. Living is our function. Death is the end of function. If we focus on death, we lose the point of living.
2006-08-21 00:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie they are pure people and God needs them from time to time to cheer everyone up and use their beautiful souls for rainbows and other wonderful things. But no ot isn't fair to us left here pondering why. It just plain hurts.
2006-08-21 00:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by kari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres alot of reason why children die. One is there health condition... and most of the rest are event related...
2006-08-21 00:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything has a purpose - even though some things seem really bad.
2006-08-21 00:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by fender bender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't seem fair. But I believe everyone dies when they are meant to.
2006-08-21 00:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not fair but thats just how life works.
2006-08-21 08:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋