ok , i always got what i want. when i fall in love to a guy, he will definitely will tell me that he love me. but the problem is whenever they tell me their feeling i will tell them to back off n i cant control myself to act like this. can anyone help me, i have just do the same thing to a guy that i have crush with n that make it 10 heart.
2006-08-20 16:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the last sentences mean that i have just do the same to 9 other boys.
the problem is i dunno wat is my problem with love. please help me fast coz i got a crush on a guy at my tuition place n he look like having the same feeling toward me. i dont want to do the same thing toward him.
2006-08-20 17:34:23 · update #1
You are scared of commitment or the idea of someone being attached to you. It's not that you probably don't wanna be with one person it's just that you get scared like anyone would. Here's my advice. First figure out your reason why you react the way you react. If you feel like this guy might be worth your time, write him letter or email or something where you tell him your reason why you back away. If he cares for you he will make you feel better or a little more comfortable or will be understandin. This will take away the doubt of is this person worth the effort or emotion of me changing on how I react to someone else's feeling
2006-08-20 17:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by "Q" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey dont play with hearts. Find out inside yourself what you really want and need then go for that. Love is not something to play with
2006-08-21 00:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by cowboygene2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a spoiled drama queen and give the guy a chance, or stop leading him on.
2006-08-21 00:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be that way sometimes. yr just protecting yrself from being hurt. take it slow if you really like this guys you dont have to say you love him until yr ready. more tips on dating and relationships that will help you on this site
2006-08-21 00:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are scared of comitement. you want hime in your life but dont want to give in. let your heart tell you what to do. If you love him tell him how you feel and just talk about it.
2006-08-21 00:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop leading men on before it backfires on you. Think about it.
2006-08-21 00:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥meiling♥® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your last sentence?
2006-08-21 00:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by :Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for ur turn when someone says " back off"......well stop playing with others feelings.......the prize for it is not easy....
2006-08-21 00:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by narjhianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say again????
2006-08-21 00:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋