i really miss my cousins......i hv beee very close to them...now wen ever i think about them i cry....how can i not think of them???
2006-08-20 16:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
allow yourself to cry, that helps. In time you wont miss them as much. They are always with you..... in your heart!!
2006-08-20 16:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it wouldn't be so bad to allow yourself some time to think about them, let the feelings come, give yourself some comfort and allow yourself to feel sad. Give yourself plenty of time to do this, and when the sadness comes later, let it come again, but for a shorter period (and each time, do something that makes you feel good while you are grieving - make some tea, bubble bath, something that takes care of YOU). You'll find you're grieving normally, and taking care of yourself at the same time...and the grief will get better with time. Don't forget them. They deserve to be in your thoughts and memories, and they deserve to be remembered eventually with a smile! Give yourself the time you need, and take care of YOU in the process. You deserve that!
2006-08-26 01:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mark L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a little time you'll get over it. I was living in Newyork with my cousin and grandma I was gonna move down here to florida with my mom I was very sad cause I grew up with my cousin. But after like a few weeks I got over it.
2006-08-26 10:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find something to occupy your time. Something on the internet, read articles, magazines about interesting things, find someone special to care about, doing volunteer work can mitigate a surprising amount and a great many types of emotional pain.
2006-08-20 23:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too sentimental......Go out and meet some friends...Enjoy!!!! life is short. If you are religious one, join community in your local church...be active. Be into sports, do your household chores, study ....read informative materials. There's a lot of things you can do......do not be a fool of always thinking about your cousins.
2006-08-28 04:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Romel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME
time heals all wounds
to help deal make a picture albulm of them
then you can look through it during real hard times
people come intio your life for a reason or a season seldam do they stay a life time
2006-08-26 19:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by robs_princess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not email them. If they don't have the internet try writing them a letter. If you can phone them and plan to meet somewhere for dinner of go visit with them.
2006-08-25 11:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't. I was that way with my family until we all moved to Utah together. Best thing you can do is to keep in contact through email, snail-mail, phone calls, and the like.
2006-08-20 23:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Angie, Raised by Wolves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you should forget them? Try to keep in touch, call them on the phone, write them and share your feelings with them, tell them that you miss them, etc. I´m sure they miss you too.
2006-08-27 16:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mónica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it would help if u took ur mind off of ur cuzins for a little bit by getting together with friends, or just like did sum stuff with ur family. that mite help u.
2006-08-27 23:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by haitianb-ballgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋