I've been hanging out with this guy for the past three months. We get together about once a week and when we do, it is usually for about ten hours. He calls, we've gone out to get desert and coffee, we've gone to out to a movie, we've watched movies at his house, we've gone out to the lake, we stay at his house and talk for hours on end-so what do you believe is going on? It is hard for me to tell because it seems to be more than being just friends which I want it to be but nothing is "official" and I don't want to be totally wrong.
2006-08-20 15:56:55 · 20 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is a discriminating person that wants to find out if he likes you before he says he likes you.
Maybe he is gay and you are his hag.
Maybe he is shy and waiting for you to make the first move.
Maybe you should just say, what are we doing here?
2006-08-20 16:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after spending all this time together has he made a move attempted to kiss you or touch you in a playful kinda way how does he look at you when you guys are together the eyes say alot being shy is one thing but if he hasnt tried anything by now he just wants a friendship or he's gay and just wants a friendship better foind out now get a friend a really hot friend to come around when you guys are together and get her/he to flirt with him see what his reaction is.
2006-08-20 23:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that there is a very special bond between you two but maybe he sees you as a very close friend. It is best to ask him and how he feels towards you. He may be shy and that's why he probably hasn't asked u and if so you have to take the first step.
2006-08-20 23:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your just hanging out it sounds like friends. Are you guys ever intimate with eachother, have you kissed or anything? If so then maybe it is more than friends. Talk to him about it if you like him.
2006-08-20 23:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dates have kissing, if no kissing not a date, just pals hanging out.
You can ask him out on an offical date, and make sure he knows it is a date.
2006-08-20 23:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb this guy enjoys your company, enjoys spending time with you - enojys hanging out with you. he may see you as a good friend of his. if he tries to kiss you or puts his arm around you, there is definitely some liking there. i myself am in a situation where im in a relationship with someone, but i dont know whether its just a friendship or that he just enjoys spending time with me. i've only seen and spent time with him twice because im not allowed to go out a lot or anything, but both times he had drank alcohol and kissed me. the first time the kisses were constantly, and part of me wanted to kiss him because of his sweetness towards me and seeing that he likes me. both times we spent a lot of time together that last time he always wanted me with/near him. he's asked for my number before but i never gave it to him. more of a reason y we havnt seen each other more. this saturday he's going to my friend's party which i'm invited to, and im freaking out because of what may happen. he hasnt really officially asked me out. he did ask me on the first time we saw each other if i would go out with him the next night and also asked me to go to his b'day, saying he really wanted me to go. and the next day after his b'day (i didnt go because i had no idea when it was, all i knew was that it was in june) he told me how much he wished i was there and he would have had so much more fun by me being there. he hadnt drank alcohol yet when he said that, so to hear that was cool. i think mine and his relationship has gone beyond friendship. what i found hilarious is that this guy does spend a lot more time with my friend (a gay friend of mine) more than he does with me, and at the time when i first spent time with him (he had had a little to drink) he told me he loved me, and then straight after said that he loved me more than my friend. i think he sees our relationship as really good friends, but at the same time wants us to be more than good friends. if we do become official, i dont know if i'd want to tell my family because a lot of issues in this area concerns his race, and my family are becoming against the race. age doesnt really matter. he's twenty as of last june and i'll be nineteen three months from tomorrow. i guess what im trying to say is dont read too much into it unless u know for sure that your relationship with him is more of a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. you've gotta hear from him if he likes you in that way and see if he asks you out in that way
2006-08-20 23:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just being friends, can hang out and go to movies, there's no law saying that you have to be dating to do stuff like going to the movies, or go out to get food, etc.
2006-08-20 23:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't doubt any longer. You need to ask him if the relationship is friendship or if it's heading towards something more. Nobody here knows, only he knows where his mind is at.
Good Luck.
2006-08-20 23:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are on the right tract.....a couple should be friends first. Won't it be interesting to see where this might lead? Enjoy yourself, dear one. Don't be in such a rush.
2006-08-20 23:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask is this developing into something? I really like the time spent together and see where it goes from there
2006-08-20 23:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by wick3dwench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋