We've talked about getting married and I know he's saving for a ring, which is very exciting, but I still think we need to spice things up. Does anyone have any ideas (inexpensive ones, preferably) so we can "relive" how things were when we first started dating??
2006-08-20 15:55:28 · 6 answers · asked by Roseann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him a love letter and set in on his driver side seat, in the car. I once read guys like cute little things as much as girls. Buy him his favorite candy and do the same. At least once a week its always nice to go out and do something romantic maybe one week you pick something and the next he picks something, to kind of get him more involved. Good luck!
2006-08-20 16:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go back to the beginning. Especially since the beginning excitement, butterflies in the stomach wasn't real. That beginning stuff is lust and crush. Real loves comes later on after you get to know each other. Ruts happen because you are comfortable and are a good thing for the most part because they provide security in a relationship. It's okay to do something new together every now and then for adventure or to have something to do, but to "relive" how things were then is just immature. Build on to what you have now so it will be a solid relationship that will last.
2006-08-20 16:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is you have to sit down with him and see where you life is right now. Find out why your sex life is on the run. Are you finacialy set if not then your work is getting the best of both of you. Just working makeing ends meet really put a damper on things and in bed. A little advice onces you find out what you lack then its off to finding some games to do in bed going out on the weekend to the coast. Sometimes getting away from the world is the only way to get yourselves back in to each other arms. For one thing thats cheap have one weekend to yourselves and have the whole house in candles and a sexy music half naked having sex in every single part of the house. on the kictchen tabel on top of the dry, washer in the tub on the you name it make it an adventure do it anywhere possible. good luck
2006-08-20 16:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man..it sounds like ur mans fault..it should always be up to the man to spice things up..i know i always do.. set up romantic dinners..u know..its actually realy eaasyy..it doesnt really take up much time either..sometimes people are just lazy..im only 18 and i live at home but i still do big things. but u can do things too..dont always leave things up to other people to do things that need to be done.. set up a romantic dinner with candles...candle light bath..bedroom..sexy music..do it uup..it works i do it all the time! and i gett p**** p***** p****
2006-08-20 16:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by wat_u_Kno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to strip bars together, have threesomes, go to swinger clubs, make out with another girl infront of him ...........
2006-08-20 16:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by wett_lips_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋