We tried to once, but i guess i was just nervous, all we had was us, and i didn;t get i guess aroused enough.
2006-08-20 15:52:52 · 14 answers · asked by icurious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am of age i am 17. we tried the first time but he couldnt get his penis in. So what the best bet for the 2nd time. Do I just need to get alot of lubrication.
2006-08-20 16:09:00 · update #1
How old are you? do you know what you are doing?
If you were not aroused then maybe your body is telling you something.
2006-08-20 15:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by gln2401 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lubricant and for him to go quickly. This may seem odd to some, but it is probably going to hurt no matter what your first time. Going quick gets the pain part over and you can move onto the enjoyment. My first time was horrible. He tried to go slow but it just prolonged the pain. If I had know better at the time, I would have told him to just "take the plunge" and do it quick.
2006-08-20 22:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouls be totally aroused first my dear so that you won't get hurt that much. You should be well lubricated too before jumping into.Just enjoy all the pleasures!
2006-08-20 22:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by richel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very immature to say "pop my cherry" are you doing this to please your boyfriend? How old are you" Why don't you just wait until the right person comes around and you are old enough to appreciate what it is to "make love", for when the right person comes around you will be aroused enough to make it go smoothly for both of you.
2006-08-20 22:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by white61water 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little young to be having sex. I think you should wait a while.
Lots and lots and lots and lots of kissing and touching. It might be best if your boy invests in giving you an orgasm one time and then trying to enter you afterwards.
2006-08-20 23:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm just try to relax. It will hurt your first time but after that it will feel good. Think of something that either turns you on or relaxs you. That's what i did my first time and it was great! LoL!
2006-08-20 22:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, how old are you? Using terms like "pop my cherry" you sound 13? Are you prepared for sex, and the eventual consequences? are you using protection?
2006-08-20 22:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you already tried once...so that means you had sex...its done...sometimes it breaks from sports or doing anything else...so it won't necessarily bleed which is a sign of the hymen breaking
2006-08-20 23:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by oh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not that ready. be ready wen time comes. dont' be nervous and give your best shot.
2006-08-20 22:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by My_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he put it in you but you didnt come, you already lost your cherry baby
2006-08-20 22:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋