i had jus got outta VERY BAD relationship a few months ago, and found sum1 new. he and i met a few months ago, he liked me and i liked him. so today he wanted to *** to ma house this week to go to another level (if u know wat i mean). but first i wanted him to ask me out so i gave him hints and clues, then he got it and was like "i dont want a relationship cuz ur too yung" and im only 1 in a half yrs yunger. so i said "u want to do me, but dont want to have a relationship wit me". he apolagized but should i accpet it.
2006-08-20 15:48:55 · 35 answers · asked by AMARI J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well garbage cans are a cheap gift for those
who belong in them
Send it to him as a gift
and leave a note saying
you know what to do
Get in and just wait patiently
2006-08-20 15:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Queen A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was a little difficult to understand, i think you should except the apology but dont let him take advantage of this. You need to be the bigger person in the relationship if you really want him to respect you. If you dont feel ready to go to the next level then make him wait. If he doesnt like that and leaves you. You wont be missing anything. Guys respect girls who do that. He will sooner or later realize what he was missing and come back for you. Trust me its happend to me too many times ;)
2006-08-20 15:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you want to have a relationship or do you want to just have sex? If you want to have a relationship first and sex later, I don't think this is the guy for that. It sounds like this guy just wants to get into your pants and leave.
The other thing is that sex could change your life in major, major, ways. Ways you can't even imagine. You also have to ask yourself "is this guy really worth it?"
2006-08-20 15:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by natobanato2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can accept his apology but I wouldnt have sex with him. Maybe you should give yourself a little time....I mean take your time before getting involved with someone since you just got out of a bad relationship. If you want to date then sure but maybe think about not being intimate with anyone for awhile until you figure out why you seem to be attracting losers...
2006-08-20 15:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not! I understand that you like the guy and all, but he is using you! Plus, you have sooo much to offer any guy. He may be the guy you like right now, but there are tons of other guys out there who will respect you enough to treat you like the unique, amazing , and totally special young lady you are!
2006-08-20 15:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You're too vulnerable right now since you just got out of that relationship. Be alone for a while and reflect.
2006-08-20 15:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Roseann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not, just be geatful that you didnt do anything with the loser, kick his butt to the curb girl you can find better that that, not to be rude but stop looking so hard. Take your time girfriend so that you dont end up with the headachs. I am sure you have mad love to give stop giving it to these losers! take your time the right will come, trust me....................... good luck and take care
2006-08-20 16:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have little or no respect for yourself. Remember once you get a slutty rep. you may find it hard to find anyone worth dating. He's only after one thing and when he gets it it will be so long baby. I'll just bet that your better than that, so be smart.
2006-08-20 15:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by murphyslaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You are still considering @#$%ing him when he just told you he DOES NOT care about you. He only apologized because he wants to get some.
You were going along so good. Recognizing his B.S., asking idf he cared for you and then....your brains turned to mush!
2006-08-20 15:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just no
HELL NO
so you arent good enough to be seen in public with?
Sex isnt a relationship?
Drop this loser like the user he is.
2006-08-20 15:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kirk M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋