This is really an honest question that I would like an answer to, because this might help some women out. For the men who are attracted to women a size 16 or larger what is it that's makes you attracted to them verses the video girls. I know personality matters, and I know men like pretty faces, but at the end of the day she still has a stomach, non perky tit*s, stretch marks, love handles, and you still have to be seen in public with her, and especially if you are a good looking men all the skinny women look at you like why have that when you can have this. So I am asking besides the personality, the pretty face, and all the other obvious answers people give what makes you men attracted to plus size women.
2006-08-20 15:45:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question I have dated alot of slender good looking women. All were very short relationships each one had there on problems and attitudes that I did not like. One was either all after my money, not so smart, scared to show their feelings, and or just to picky, but that is what I hate. Don't get me wrong I still love slender women, but only for the physical part. Then I started dating a little on the plus side know not the women that are just overly big and have a hard time moving thats just to far not to be rude. I have always been slim and with an athletic build body. To me women with a little bit of meat I find reallly sexy, but they do have a great personalty and care about you and themselves. I do know that every women that I have dated that are a little meaty are great to hang with. So after so many years finally settled down with one of them and started a family. Now we have two kids, but she gained alot of weight, which I find it sexy still its not overly over weight. Its how deeply in love and care for one another that looks and size should not matter. Slender woman are not all bad, but I found that women with a little padding is the whole packege O one more thing my wife went from being size 18 when she gained all that weight from the kids and now is down to a size 12 when we first got together.
2006-08-20 16:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so I am not a guy but sweetie I am who you are talking about. I am a size 16. And I have never dated an ugly guy. If you want to know besides a personality. Well it is because we have an a** and a chest and every guy who has dated me says that he hates a girl who looks like they need to eat. They have all told me that they like girls with curves. I have to be honest with you I don't see why guys like girls who are like 300 plus. I would be interested to know why they do? But for me, I am a plus size model and I do have a great personality (or so I am told), and I am not a model for nothing.
2006-08-20 15:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i am not clearly what is your question, and i don't know what is size 16.
but give me a woman who is full, not too fat, not too skinny. i don't like girls in the vedio, they are good to look at but no thanks.
1st attraction to me is a girl who has big breasts, nice waist with round butt, and cute smile.
2nd attraction is she warm person or no? if not, then all the physicall beaty that i was attracted to in number 1 will be Nothing. she is not attracted to me anymore.
2006-08-20 15:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats so wrong with a plus size woman, are they not worthy of being seen with because of their weight there are far too many superficial people in the world and you are one of them in my opinion its a preference that doesnt really have to do with their weight im sure its the person, just like why do white women date black men or vice versa or why are older women attracted to younger guys. why are there gay people in the world i guess they like what they like and thats that
2006-08-20 15:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because we're not stuck on ourselves like many of the thin girls are. All they care about is their hair, clothes and make-up.
We actually give that attention too but we also give our man attention and we have less attitude.
2006-08-20 15:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Could be most guys don't think they stand a chance with a good looking, thin figured women. They're not willing to take the chance of rejection. I say, what do you got to lose? Go for it!
2006-08-20 15:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by outdoornut42 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm waiting for the answer to that question too!
2006-08-20 15:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-20 15:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋