There's this girl who lives in my apartment building who I think likes me. Whenever she sees me she always asks what I'm doing. And the other day, she bent over to pick something up and she "accidently" rubbed her as-s against my lap. I was really turned on, but I didn't say anything. As she walked away, she turned back and gave me a smile. Does this mean she likes me? Or is she leading me on? I really don't know what to do...
2006-08-20 15:21:38 · 25 answers · asked by oldskoolguy85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!!!! DUDE, MAKE A MOVE!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 15:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would appear she is not indifferent to you, wouldn't it? What I would mention to you is twofold. First, secure your valuables. Do not leave your guard down, any more than you would with anyone who is relatively new to you. Second, enjoy her company and interest in you, as you discover it, you will be able to sense if this is more than two ships passing in the night, &c., but if she brings out some neckties and asks if she can tie you to the bed frame, this might be cause for concern. And then you'll really have to be careful, because the little devil on your one shoulder will be smiling the familiar "go-for-its," and the angel on your other shoulder will be waving its arms in the air, looking aghast and begging you to come to your senses, which brings me to my last point - give the whole thing some time to establish just exactly what kind of thing you are dealing with here. Get to know her a little better before you jump in, as it were. Natural caution is a friend, you know. It is a survival technique, but as I mentioned earlier, I'd be on guard for anything kinky that might rear its beguiling noggin - like the neckties, or a couple of feather dusters, or well, handcuffs - that would be a completely obvious giveaway, to which I would encourage giving her a resounding "NO!" I think maybe romance might be nudging at you a tad here, but remember, you are both in that apartment building and probably see each other daily, soooo... be kind and a perfect gentleman, but listen to me! You always are a gentleman. Everyone knows that... Sent to you with the smile of encouragement, generally, from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old.)
2006-08-20 22:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either or
U should ask her, the next time she does something to make u feel this way, ask her " What are u doing" if she ask what do u mean then say I notice you do little cutesy things and I was wondering why?"
If she ask what do u mean by cutesy things, then list off the things she's done or doing and ask her to explain why
2006-08-20 22:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a sl*t and yeah for what it's worth she likes you. Question is do you want to be involved with someone who rubs herself up against "strangers"?
2006-08-20 22:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try asking her out, take a chance. Next time she ask what are you doing say nothin you want to hang out?
2006-08-20 22:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you no doubt about it! I'm a girl and that is a sign that she digs you man! Try to flirt with her and then ask her out!
2006-08-20 23:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Alice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to tell. Sometimes they act like they like you so they can get a guy who will drool over them to get an ego boost....happened to guys i know before.
2006-08-20 22:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait to see what she does then ask her if she wants to go for some cofee and then so on and so forth if u dont like coffee try breakfast dont try somthing at night untill you are sure she likes you but dont do anything stupid like tell her shes fine r anything yet tell me how it goes at d6g007@yahoo.com
2006-08-20 22:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by d6g007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to drop:
Is that your lottery ticket?
Is that your dollar?
Your shoe is untied....
I think the paint chipped on your toenail....well look closer...again
2006-08-20 22:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would talk to her if i were you and see where things are at between you 2
2006-08-20 22:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over to her place right now, knock on the door, grab her and start going at it!!!!
2006-08-20 22:35:15 · answer #11 · answered by DIVA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋