okay me and dis boy was doing **** or whateveer he is 17 im 13 and,he was gonna ask me out (his sis told me)and he started calling me a ***** for no reason and we got into this huge fight?why did he blow up for no reason?did he just relize he was to old or what?i know he is too old u dont have to tell me
2006-08-20 15:12:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya'll wanna say stupid **** ga head this is a website wear ur spossed to help,instead of being a ***** on here u could try have respect
2006-08-20 15:24:12 · update #1
dont call me a ******* hoe if u dont know me
2006-08-20 15:38:49 · update #2
Don't believe that everyone is doing it and that it is good. Sex outside of marriage will always leave you feeling used. The guy who wants to have sex with you is concerned with himself and being selfish. That is not making love. Find someone who will respect you.
NOW;
Tell your parents. Tell your teacher. Tell somebody. Even if he is not yet 18. It was RAPE. I don't know how the law stands in regard to this, but he needs to be reported to the police. Seriously, he is bad news. He took advantage of you and if you don't report it he will continue hurting other girls. Who knows how many other girls he has MOLESTED. You need to be checked for diseases.
Maybe he is already 18 and he lied to you about his age.
Don't worry about people finding out what happened when you report it. It sounds like he may go bragging anyhow. So before you get that bad reputation and have boys swarming for their turn, GO TELL THE TRUTH.
YOU WERE EITHER RAPED Or MOLESTED By THIS BOY.
Also Make a promise to yourself to wait until marriage so that you won't be used and have a low self esteem and pick the wrong person to marry. If you don't understand this now, don't do anything until you do.
If you have a church, it is a good idea to go and confess and make a resolve to live your life in a pure way.
God Bless You,
2006-08-20 15:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK sweety,
Here goes... Hes not TO OLD just so you know. I am 20 and my fiance is going to be turning 24. It is the same age difference between you guys. Love has nothing to do with age. If you care about him I support you in this decission. You need to stand up for what you believe in and not let anyone look down on you for what you do. Now I dont know about his sister telling you that he was going to ask you out because I havent had a good exsperiance with that. The sisters (no offence) tend to lie sometimes to either hurt you or to make you happy about the situation. I think you should ask him about it. Go to him and ask why he blew up and if there is a specific reason then ask him what can be done to fix it. I mean that is if you care about the guy. Good luck!
2006-08-20 15:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He wasnt going to ask you out, he probably just said that so you would do things with him Thats what jerk 17 year old boys do to 13 year old girls. Sorry! Dont waste your time on him. Find someone closer to your age if you want to be treated right.
2006-08-20 15:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! They are being rough on you in here. Not very nice responses. But to answer your questions....boys are mean, flat out dumb and mean. He knew you were 13. He is one of two things...either freaked out that he is turning 18 and you being younger puts him in a statutory position or he is being a guy and thought with the wrong head and now cant get himself out of it and is too immature to just admit it to you, so he is acting like a immature baby and calling names.
My advice....get away from him if he cant face what is going on you dont want him. He sounds like a loser. And I dont think youre a ho...i think he is!
2006-08-20 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What 13 years girl doing with 17 years boy ? Why dont you concentrate on your school and home work and have a happy norma childhood istead playing around with boys.
2006-08-20 15:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you did that with him. He started calling you that because he's a pig for messing with someone so young and should be ashamed of himself. Instead, he pretended like he's ashamed of you. What a jerk.
2006-08-20 15:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by J B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl u have so much life ahead of u. Dont go doing anything crazy. u have alot of growing up to do
2006-08-20 15:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was probably mad at something and you just happened to be there and he just had to blow some steam. I don't know if he meant it or not but just find someone closer to your age because he is probably to experienced and yah. I hope i some what helped.
2006-08-20 15:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what would a 17 year old want with a 13 year old anyways... that's wierd.
2006-08-20 15:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You answered your question. He's too old for you and he got mad cause you told. Now he has to find another girl to molest....
2006-08-20 15:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by kirk_leblanc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋