Okay ladies not bashing you but I gotta ask cause I have seen it alot in the years I have been dating. 80 percent of my friends are females cause I have the ever popular "big brother" label that allows me to sit in on the elite club call girl chat or lady talk cause they are oblivious to me cause I am just Shadow. I hear you girls talk about a man that will cater to you and give you everything yet the majority of you are with the exact opposite of what you talk about having. I am a good man believe in being a gentleman till the end but why do you ladys love the dog or perverbal a**hole?
2006-08-20 15:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Afraid of being hurt and getting to close. Why is it that women cant have that type of person u say that u are? Thats exactly what i want and have yet to find it. The few i have dated just fill me with bullshit lies. Thats what i hate the most
2006-08-20 15:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, when I first start dating a guy, I like seeing his rougher, more manly (maybe even bad boy) side. This is just becuase when I first get to know a guy, I do not want him constantly gushing all over me and acting crazy for me when I do not have these same feelings for him yet. Howver, a few months into the relationship, i loooooove more than anything when the guy that I have fallen in love with will do anything for me. Maybe it's becuase I have these feelings for him too and it's mutual, not just one sided. for example, at the beginning of a relationship if a guy called me "sweetie" or "baby" all the time, I would think he was insincere and creepy. But if a few months into a relationship he called me that, I would melt because it would mean more! I know, girls are so confusing, and I hate being like that, but I can't help it. hope that helped!!
2006-08-20 15:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totaly with you man. Be a gentlemen to the end, and the girls will come to you. The popular girls at school (at least at my school anyways) all like the perverts that want to get into their pants. Just be a gentlemen, when women get older or already matrue women (such as my own), they realize that the gentlemen type of guys are the ones that are worth spending your life with.
By the way, my girlfriend says HI!
2006-08-20 15:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Alden C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always wonder the same thing truth is sometimes it's our self esteem that keeps us in the wrong type of relationship or the fact that we at times need to feel secure and because society paints the picture of being whole as having a man some of us jump on the first one available just so we wont look "lonely". when we really don't realize were better off being by ourselves than having someone abuse us .
2006-08-20 15:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself I never intended to end up with doggish guys, it just seemed to be what I ended up with. I always have desired an old fashioned guy, because I consider myself a good woman. I have since found a really wonderful guy, but I have to say when we first met I really didn't know how to handle the relationship, because it was foreign to me. He is the complete opposite of all the men I have known. I doubted his sincerity at first because i thought he was just another gorgeous guy who played the field, but he has proved me wrong. I even told him one day about the thoughts I had of him before I truly came to know him. He just laughed and reminded me that not all guys are alike , but that he understood how I felt due to the fact i had been hurt and played so many times. To all the good men out there I say ...thank you for being sweet and honest. Don't change your heart because you don't think you are appreciated for being a good guy, because I am here to tell you, I appreciate you all.
2006-08-20 15:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, why would I be terrified of fellows? I have in no way had an "agenda" the position men are worried. you realize it may be extra constructive in case you'll contact this "lady" right now really of coming the following and attempting to call her out.
2016-11-30 21:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats true in most cases.Sometimes a woman does not want a man she can get everything from, we'd rather be with the ones that needs to be tamed.
2006-08-20 16:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by sex-c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the truth is that we werent treated so well when we were children, so thats what we are comfortable with. The nice guy seems boring, or we dont trust him because he doesnt seem real. Thats why i try so hard to be nice to my kids and treat them really well, so that that will be what they expect from their mates.
2006-08-20 15:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by dbmamaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like a**holes. I perfer the gentlemen. Don't become a jerk. U will find a girl who loves gentlemen.
2006-08-20 15:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are just dumass me to
2006-08-20 15:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋