so yea. he always asks me if i can do something. but he never has any ideas. he just says, as long as im with you, im happy. and that is really sweet, and cute, but..im running out of ideas..
movies, bowling, starbucks, mini golfing, hanging out at his house, the park, just walking around. i cant think of anything else!
so yea. i need help.
any suggestions?
2006-08-20 14:46:33 · 20 answers · asked by kittylover61891 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I wish my boyfriend had that mind...he thinks everything is all about him. That's a blessing that he's just happy with you and only you. He satisfied. It don't matter if the two of you cuddle, or just walk...he's in love. Try a few board games, or try making up games...God gave you a brain...use it. How about this, I came up with a game called "how well do you know me?", and you ask the other person questions , I even did interpretive dances for him off inspirational songs. Try that. If you like plays take him to a theater.
2006-08-20 15:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by lil_l2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought of traveling outside the country? A lot more to do.... Night market... feastival....plus it'll force you two to learn a new language. Sorry but Movies , bowling, starbucks, mini golfing and the park are all poor excuse for "nothing to do". ... and have you thought that by doing these... both of you aren't really learning anything....after the movie...sure you reflect and discuss on the movie...but that's it. conversation ends in less than 30 min. Defeat all that. You should find something interesting to do . Take a dance class, Take a cooking class...heck pick up a cook book and go together to find ingredients and cook! Go to Barnes and noble and read for 3-4 hours. Play sports activities, go snowboarding, go bike riding...camping. take pictures and edit them on computer..Take funny pictures of each of you jumpin in mid-air. Make some projects. Clean the house, sell stuff on ebay. go to a pet store...go buy a hamster, find out how to take care of a hamster, go to laser tag center. Go buy a ARchery and play in the back yard. Bring food to the park at least , pinic out. Go fishin just go learn something together. DO SOMETHING FOR THE COMMUNITY.. go volunteer planting a tree for example and you'll learn how to maintain a tree.
2006-08-20 21:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was actually never any good at this either i usually feel the same way ur bf does
u could try clubbing(if ur old enough), playing a sport together (like golf takes along time to play too), work out together
it kinda all depends on what u 2 have in common
2006-08-20 22:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a museum, plan a romantic evening, look at the stars, see a musical, go to an amusement park, go to a haunted house when it's halloween, go to an outdoor concert, have a picnic, bake cookies with each other, gather up all your friends for a game of frisbee, go hiking, go camping, take a class together, go dancing, have drawing contests, play cards, teach each othe new board games, volunteer together.
2006-08-20 21:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hanging at the beach when the sun is setting.
play-ing in the sand or playin volleyball.
going to the mall.
going to a nice but not so expensive restaurant.
rock-climbing,oh that's fun try it i have it is really fun.a walk to the park when the sun is setting.bungee jumping.
skiing.
snowboarding.
try some thing you both haven't ever tried before so you both will have fun together.
2006-08-20 21:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Noelle Mariee. 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find more female frenz out there. So boring if u two just only have each other to spend time with.
2006-08-20 21:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only a boyfriend now and you guys are young... and you already can't find things to do??? Obviously don't have a whole lot in common.... why waste your time?
2006-08-20 21:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by mama_bears_den 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAY TRIVIAL PERSUIT, READ AND DISCUSS THE EDITORIALS IN THE PAPER, LEARN ABOUT ALL THE POILICIANS AND THEIR POLICIES, PLAY POOL, PLAY ONLINE POOL, WRITE STORIES WHERE YOU WRITE A PARAGRAPH, THEN HAND IT OVER TO HIM TO ADD ON TO, AND HE HANDS IT BACK TO YOU TO CONTINUE, ETC.
GO TIE-DYE SOME STUFF. GO WALK SOME POEPLES' DOGS, GO LOOK AT THE CARS AT THE DEALERSHIPS, TROLL THE INTERNET, DO YAHOO ANSWERS TOGETHER....
2006-08-20 21:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
change boyfriends! or better yet find a girl to hang out with.
2006-08-20 21:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
community work, like planting trees; helping the needy
2006-08-20 21:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋