me and my boyfriend r both 12 and we've been going out about 2 months adn everything was goin good until he to boyscout camo and he looked @ porn!!ever since then our relationship has been down in the drain and i dont know wut 2 do!1 should i break up w/ him or stay w/ him!!!HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 14:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by lolamericangirl9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off your 12! why do you have a boyfriend? but besides that, all i can say is it is natural for a boy to look at porn at sme point in his life. as long as he isnt forcing you to do anything you dont want to, i would stay with him and just tell him you dont want to talk about looking at porn and that he should do that on his own time and when he is with you he should just talk about other stuff that both of you like to talk about.
2006-08-20 14:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off the whole porn thing u may want to find a way to get over that because hes going thru the puberty stage and most likely will never lay off the porn anyway
secondly if u dont like how the relationship is goin ur 12 most likely this isnt the guy ur gonna marry so if dont want to date him break up with him or dont
2006-08-20 21:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys at your age is interested only in exploring sexuality. They have no interest yet for a long term relationship, getting married, have kids, etc.
If you stay with him, there is a 100% chance he will ask you to try some of the things he saw in that porn. Be careful, you don't want to end up having babies at 12. It's almost never been heard of, and it is a too big responsibility for you.
2006-08-20 21:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by papadaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even be worried about this type of thing. Your a young child. You sound like you and this boy are married or something. Get over it, and keep your head in the books, and have fun with your friends at your age. You are really too young to be worried about boyfriends. Yes, breakup with him and chill out and just have fun at your age. Trust me you need to enjoy your childhood because when you get older things are going to get a lot harder for you.
2006-08-20 21:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is changing. At his age, he will change a lot quite quickly as his body and mind get ready to be an adult. He is becoming interested in things (like porn) that he wasn't interested in before. This is only natural. Give him space to become who he is going to be. If you can still be friends, that's good, but don't worry too much if you can't.
2006-08-20 21:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy here and i wun say anythin abt p*** but i think its a wrong time for ya to get a bf..please..he's juz 12 and hasn't matured..wt makes u so sure he really like ya in the 1st place..if ya tgink ya can salvage it..then go for it..rmb..it muz make ya happy..but if he continues like this..wait a few yrs..it won't hurt ya..there are better guys out there anyways..save ur 1st love..
2006-08-20 21:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel the truth is that u know where ur shoes r pinching u,is just like askin if one shd jump in to a pot of fire
wish u luck
be wise
2006-08-20 21:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know u have an excellent point there. I wish I could help you.
I like Bethany's answer.:-)
Good Luck though! :-)
2006-08-20 21:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me, I just showered.
2006-08-20 21:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋