i have a friend thats a guy. and we always sit together in sunday school and we were paired up as a team and all that. we talk online and sometimes he's really flirting with me! and he throws away my trash and just is really nice to me. he talks to me and smiles at me when i look at him. and he doesn't do that to like anyone but me.
my friend who just got his email asked him if he liked anyone and he said i don't like anyone! so i didn't think he liked me
but the morning after, we were flirting again. and he's shy, too. he doesn't just flirt with anyone. but this evening he didn't talk to me once. and hardly looked at me, even when we were shaking hands....
i just don't understand him!! does he like me like more than a friend or are we just friends?
2006-08-20 14:30:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok. this is whats up inside his head. Hes totally infatuated with you. You make him crazy somehow. I used to do this same thing with girls when I was in my early teens, and it was because I thought they were really nice and cute and I got to like them so much that I would freeze when I talked or looked at them. Sounds like this guy is having the same issue. I would bet this guy is really into you, but is afraid that hes going to lose you as a friend if he takes things to far. If you like him, it wouldnt be a bad idea just to sit down and talk about your friendship a little and reassure him that your not going anywhere.
2006-08-20 14:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation when I was quite young, but I was the guy. I was too shy to ask her out, & boy did I ever want to. We always sat together in church, & she gave me the sweetest smiles the whole time we were together. So I went away with my family on summer vacation, & while I was away I resolved that I would get the courage to ask her on a date the minute we got back into town. I didn't even wait for Sunday, as soon as we were back in the city I rode over to her house, & knocked on her door. A strange man answered & told me that she & her family had moved to another state. I was done.
Don't be discouraged by what he is saying to others, let him know how you feel. If he's just shy, that might be all he needs to hear to get over the shyness.
Best of luck.
2006-08-20 22:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is comfortable with you but not interested in anything more.He obviously likes you as a friend but doesn't share the same feelings toward where this might go. You may not be what he is looking for in "dating " material. He may not be ready for that with anyone. Accept him as a good friend and feel privilidged that he only "flirts" with you.And enjoy the special way he makes you feel.
2006-08-20 21:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys put themselves through hell for no reason except insecurity. IF you like him, tell him, it will be a GIANT load lifted off of his chest if he likes you back. However, he may feel that he is "unlikable" or that he isn't worthy of someone like you.
So, since he is shy, do him the favor and "start the conversation" either saying your "friends only you hope; or that you want to be more if he would like it also." One of the two.
Trust me, he's miserable, and either way, you are doing him a favor.
2006-08-20 21:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just not ready, maybe he's scared? how old are the two of you? if he's not dated before, that may be the case. When I was reading your question...well, I felt like I was 13/14 again! *bad memories*
Just ask him why he acted like that, you might get an answer that will surprise you (in or a good or bad way...the truth is the truth, whether it's bad or good)
(don't ask him "do you like me", that might be pressure he's not ready to face quite yet, and when and if you do feel you have to ask, do it in private). good luck!!! I hope you find the answers your looking for!
2006-08-20 21:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. Not everybody will admit that they like somebody, even if they're speaking to somebody else. I like a guy, and I don't think I would ever admit it to anybody. If he really flirts with you that often, maybe you should tell him that you like him. When he wasn't looking at you, he could have been thinking that you don't like HIM! Don't worry. Just talk to him about it.
2006-08-20 21:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by TheDogStar12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sias he doent like anyone becoz he knows ur friend will tel everyone in the school.
and the part where he stopped completely talking to u means hes starting to give up hope becoz u arnt showing him that u think the same. advice, talk to ihm online and say sometihng like, oh btw! im going to the cinema on saturday wanna come along...
2006-08-20 21:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young. In the whole spectrum of relationships, the amount of risk you have in just asking him is rather small. So, just ask. Maybe he is shy. So, ask him in a way that won't be threatening. Like "I think you're cool, would you like to hang out sometime?" Seriously, just go for it. You have nothing to loose. In five years, you'll wish you had taken my advise.
2006-08-20 21:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
its all in your mind. Why don't you just ask him?
If he's flirting with you, then it doesn't really mean a thing so he's being honest about not liking anyone.
2006-08-20 21:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, seriously. If HIS friend asked you if you liked anyone, would you admit to liking Mr. Sunday School? I don't think so. Ask him out!
2006-08-20 21:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋