If he/she has all the elements that make them objectively loveable, but there is no chemistry, can you make yourself fall in love with that person?
2006-08-20 14:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say generally probably not but....stranger things have happened. Things could really get upside down and backwards.
Twilight Zoney kinda stuff.....
2006-08-20 14:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by -:¦:-SKY-:¦:- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can force love no matter how hard you try. The chemistry just has to be there or it fails every time even if that person is the most desirable person on the planet.....
2006-08-20 14:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....if you don't feel something in your gut when you're with that person (butterflies, physical attraction (hormones), etc.) then it is impossible to fall in love with that person. I know that because that's what happened with my ex boyfriend. I felt something for him (chemistry and he had great qualities) but he just thought I had the great qualities. He didn't feel the chemistry. I felt it but he didn't....sorry I have to learn to let him go......i don't mean to burden you with all this.
2006-08-20 14:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love? It's subjective. If you are asking the question, then probably not.
2006-08-20 14:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lulabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, AND WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO?
ARE YOU THAT DESPERATE?
CHEMISTRY CANNOT BE MANUFACTURED.
YOU CAN LOVE THAT PERSON LIKE A COMPANION, BUT YOU CANNOT MAKE YOURSELF FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM.
2006-08-20 14:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. tried that. learned the hard way if its not there its not no matter how much you want to pretend. it will end up biting you in you tail if you do try and pretend cause you can't live a lie forever
2006-08-20 14:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Teri D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't material so you can't touch it!!!! All it takes is two people to consent and it will happen. Just like hate, you can't make yourself hate someone - it just happens!!!!
2006-08-20 14:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by kirk_leblanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to feel natural....and that chemistry is not something you could buy in a store. Its there or its not.
2006-08-20 14:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by yumyumlulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope...its impossible.
sometimes love just shows up.
and u can love the worst human being possible.
look at britney spears.
who can explain that?
2006-08-20 14:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u can't make urself fall in love with someone, it's either there or it's not.
2006-08-20 14:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by luvin_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋