2006-08-20 14:25:31 · 11 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, your not alone with this. My first experience was horrible too. I was very young when I lost my virginity, and the guy I was with had experience, but he only cared about himself at the time. Looking back I really couldn't have expected him to act any other way seeing how young we both were. It still was not worth it. I wish I would have waited around for the right guy that I felt comfortable with, and that would have treated me with more respect and love. I think a lot of us women wish we would have waited for a better partner the first time. It's such a special time in your life at that moment, and you can't take it back after the first time.
2006-08-20 14:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. And anyone ( well, most of em) that tell you any different are either lying or have never had good sex or made love and have nothing to compare it too. Least it sounds like you know what you got is not what you want and that should help ya make better decisions the next time. Nothing is ever wrong or embarrassing as long as we learn from it. (__ well, maybe a little embarrassing... ;-) __)
2006-08-20 21:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! There is such a high expectation about your first time, that you are going to be nervous and clumsy. The first time may be special because it is the first time, but it gets better.
2006-08-20 21:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Qusan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i had a horrible first sexual encounter.i was drunk off my *** and had sex with a behemoth of a creature.felt like **** the next day.was disgusted,but now,i have incredible sexual relations
2006-08-20 21:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by wizard1183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would say most people's first wasn't great. Especially if both are virgins.
2006-08-20 22:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not!!!! i think most peoples 1st time was clumsy and awkward and over in about 30 sec.s and that was 28 sec.s too long
2006-08-20 21:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by joepatt02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well probablly not-They just might not want to say it in public on yahoo.
But I'm a virgin so no I can't help ya...
2006-08-20 21:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. LOTS OF WOMEN HAVE A BAD FIRST.
YOU JUST WAIT TO DO IT AGAIN. YOU GET OVER IT. YOU WAIT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS ONLY CONCERNED WITH YOUR PLEASURE AND MAKING IT GOOD FOR YOU, BEFORE HE EVEN THINKS ABOUT TAKING ANY PLEASURE FOR HIMSELF.
2006-08-20 21:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope mine hurt so bad and i bled everywhere and it was soo embarrassing and painful i could barely walk the next day.
2006-08-20 21:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was pretty bad. I was extremly drunk and still regret it to this day.
2006-08-20 21:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by nichole9853 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋