I'm nearly 16. and I havent had a girlfriend since I moved to this new city. I moved to the city like in 5th grade. now Im a sophmore. and yet still no girlfriend. Usually I get so nervous around them. specially the ones I like. so any ideas on what to do?
2006-08-20 14:24:37 · 6 answers · asked by johnny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
breath, win going to talk to them breath deeply than dive in, you will never get a girl if you dont try, so take a deep breath and go ahead and talk to the girls, it mite even help if you practis wat your going to say.
hope i have helped
2006-08-20 14:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer that when you're nervous, it's nature's way of telling you to stay away from this one.
Don't beat yourself up over these things. . .when the time's right, you won't be able to stop yourself from being cool.
Don't listen to these people who want you to do something you obviously don't want to do. . .
Are you nervous around water when you're thirsty? Are you nervous around food when you're hungry?
Relax, everything is fine. Enjoy every single moment you have, because when all is said and done, it doesn't matter WHO you were with, but rather who YOU were, when you were with them (or not).
I was 18 before I had a gf, and my life has been very, VERY interesting. . .I'll leave it at that. =)
2006-08-20 14:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, just be yourself. It is natural to be nervous. I never really dated in high school until I was a seniour, but I had a lot of friends. For me it was better that way. I was shy and had secret crushes before that. Just continue to be the person you are and have fun.
2006-08-20 14:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill, I know that sounds easier said then done but try! don't you know we (girls) get nervous around you guys when we like you? it goes both ways. We're still human man, just start up a convo about music or sports or w/e she likes. Have some ideas in your mind so you don't go blank when you walk up to her. Oh, and pay attention to her response!! Listen to her and make eye contact! good luck!!!!
2006-08-20 14:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you're thinking about what you could do to make them like you rather than focusing on being yourself.
2006-08-20 14:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sandelf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient
2006-08-20 14:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by TexasCowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋