I wrote a question earlier but no one understood it ahah so im re-writing.
My cousin who is 35 asked if my parents are starting to worry about me having sex and other stuff now that im older.
and so i said yeah a lot! but i froze cause i didnt kno if wut i said to her would get bak to my parents so i told her that my parents are oblivious when it comes to that stuff and they dont know much about my social life etc. Does that come across as that they are oblivious as not knowing im having sex or oblivious just of everything?
So in other words did what i said sound like im some sex whore haha?
2006-08-20 14:02:27 · 16 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, if you would have said these things to me, I would have thought exactly that.
I sounds like you are having sex and you are proud that your parents are so blind that they don't have a clue.. Sorry, but that's what it sounded like to me...
2006-08-20 16:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by chulita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a parent, I wouldn't have taken that as you are a sex whore per say, but I would be paying alot more attention to who you were hanging out with and what you were doing. I'm sure your cousin was trying to do the right thing by telling your parents that you are sexually active, especially if you haven't discussed this with them yet. And I know that conversation is hard, but you need to do it honey, if you are responsible enough to have sex, then you should be responsible enough to discuss it with them so they can help you take the right steps in being protected against diseases and pregnancy.
2006-08-20 14:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you dont have a clue just how much your parents already know, or suspect anyway.
Everytime i start talking about something I "got away with" while a kid, my parents let me know that they KNEW about it, mind you this is silly stuff that really didnt hurt anyone, like sopaing windows, ringing doorbells and running, that sort of thing.
I would bet your parents kow more about your social life than you think they do, and the fact that they worry bout you shows they care.
your comment to your cousin probably sounded like you dont think your parents know about you being sexually active, which I doubt.
2006-08-20 14:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are a whore, but that there is alot going on in your life that your parents aren't aware of. Maybe you wish they would find out, and that is why you let it slip.
2006-08-20 14:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Qusan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not like a whore and i think you did the right thing really a lot of realitves just want to be nosy and carry negitive news back to the rest of the family so next time she wants to know something so personnal tell her to go ask your mother or father that will shut her up
2006-08-20 14:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. Sounds ok to me. It aso sounds like your parents asked your cousin to question you as they are probably not comfortable about talking about such issues with you.
2006-08-20 15:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like an innocent enough comment.
2006-08-20 14:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Annie R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't sound like a whore. You sound like a normal teenager. Don't sweat it.
2006-08-20 14:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you just made us parents sound kind of stupid. Please if you are having sex use protection and if you are on the pill please still use a condom as you don't want to get a nasty sexual disease.
Remember though sex isn't everything .....
2006-08-20 14:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋