I can't believe I'm asking this. The guy works at a place I frequent and he is just SO EFFING CUTE! He's got a dry sense of humor like mine and I think we'd probably get along well--he remembers my name every time, so he at least -somewhat- knows who I am. It's just, would it be weird to ask him to go on a date sometime, only knowing him from this store? And what would I SAY? I'm shy, but my desperate need for companionship is starting to overpower my shyness.;)
It probably sounds like a stupid question, but I just got out of a four-year relationship, so I'm not too sure on how this stuff is supposed to work, anymore. I'm twenty-four, by the way--I have no idea how old he is, but he looks like he's about my age, unless he's a minor who's just led a really hard life, heh.
2006-08-20 13:24:18 · 21 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just walk up and look him in the eye and say look buddy answer me this question. how am I ever going to accept a date with you if your not asking me out? I mean look I have turned down nearly every guy in town but look i am not getting any younger and if you dont get your butt off the fence then i will just have to dance with another.
2006-08-20 13:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Casey I hope you don't mind but I stopped in on your 360 and It seems that your last Mr special Is now dating a 18 year old , ...Ouch that hurts . But i cant see why you are asking for dating tips after all your a great looking girl and going by your shots are a world of fun . Don't be shy you have to remember that its just as stressful for the guy as it is for you, so be sweet and just ask the guy out your going make his day if not his year.
ADVICE go for it .....every great love was a stranger at some time .
2006-08-20 13:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask im out just straight up hes gonna think you are weird so i dont recommend that... Try asking his name, say that you think you know him from somewhere else or that he looks like someone you know and then give him your phone number, thats all a guy needs to see that a girl is interested so good luck with that ^^
2006-08-20 13:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and ask him out. What's the worse that could happen? He says no? If so, what have you lost?
Usually as a guy, I find it pleasantly surprising when a woman ask me out. Usually we are the ones who have to put ourselves out there and risk getting rejected. If you two have so much in common, you should be well on your way to a relationship. But one of you have to take that first step by asking the other out.
2006-08-20 13:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is ask him and see where that goes. And by your avatar you are a nice looking women so go for it and if he don't want to its not the end of the world just try again.
2006-08-20 13:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him for lunch dates 1st. maybe come out wit tis reason tat ur gal frens all can't make it n u r alone today n need a compainion. n juz pop de qn, ok shall u accompany me? if he agrees well u stand a chance wait 4 him to date u out next time
2006-08-20 13:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's play a game if you think he likes you. If you think there is a good chance he likes you...
Send him an invitation card to a dinner of two in a restaurant without putting your name down.
See if he dress up and show himself.
Now, if he does not really interests in you, it can be embarrassing.....
2006-08-20 13:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you gotta do is ask what he likes to do on weekends and then ask if he wants to join you to do whatever it is he likes to do.
That's basically a good start, a guy likes the compliment of someone being interested, but don't act like you obsessed.
Hope this helps. :)
2006-08-20 13:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by spuxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey, i see you here a lot and everytime i'm in here you always seem to catch my eyes, would you like to go shoot some balls at a driving range or ________________ whatever?
If he says yes then your foot is in the door, if he says no the you can carry on with your life.
2006-08-20 13:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, you're doing fine. nothing is a stupid question.
just ask him or drop a hint . . . nothing is " old fashion " and the more obvious the better? hit him on the head . . .oops . . . verbally . . .only . . .lol.
just do it . . . you been in it before . . . just out of practice . . .
alternatively . . . ask me out . . . you can pratise asking me . . .lol.
good luck.
2006-08-20 13:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋