2006-08-20 13:12:58 · 38 answers · asked by muchgaff 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yuck. maybe he knows them from a long time ago. Like they were friends in preschool, or middle school.
or maybe something more sinster...*vomits*
2006-08-20 13:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Cooool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age of your pastor. My pastor does that, and he's middle-aged. He winks at everyone, though. I think it's just faster for them than to actually stop and talk to everyone. It's like saying, "Hey, how's it goin, can't talk right now, but I haven't forgotten you're here." :) Pastors are busy people... let 'em wink!
2006-08-20 13:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Adje J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen a lot of pastors wink at everyone, its just a sign of hello, but just a very sincere form of acknowledging someone.
2006-08-20 13:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause the men he's winking at are too old to grope?
Sorry, Just kidding. It's prolly just to say hi. Some people call everyone hon.
2006-08-20 13:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to jump to conclusions but what I would do is pay attention to see if he winks at all the other people in your congregation--- women/children.
It might just be an odd habit of his of saying "hello" instead of or while waving or shaking hands.Let's hope so.
2006-08-20 13:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by ZEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do I detect homophbia or jealousy? hmmm..... try a novel approach and ask your pastor rather making up elaborate stories to gossip about pothers whatever your religious denomination is I am quite sure that this type of behavior, speculating about others,which is dehumanizing is contrary to how you should be conducting yourself and this type of behavior from those who attend church on a small or large scale ,is precisely the very behavior that reinforces negative attitudes and encourages others to become non believers or believe in god but not religion which is full of hypocrisy in the eyes of others
2006-08-20 13:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because for some winking is just a gesture like saying hi.
2006-08-20 13:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used the Force on them
2006-08-20 13:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely he's gay and its better he winks at old men instead of all the young boys
2006-08-20 13:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by kidblunted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's whats known as a conspiratorial wink.
2006-08-20 13:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wish your pastor would wink at you instead, don't you?
2006-08-20 13:31:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋