I saw this cute guy on a on-line dating site, and contacted him , he liked my profile and responded, we briefly chatted, but he requested a photo of me, before we have deep conversation. I sent him one photo of myself. The photo is clear, but kind've a side-view shot, although some of the front of my face shows. After I sent him the picture, I talked to him once he said that I was pretty and that he was interested, but he needed to see more pictures of me. That was the last time I talked to him. I haven't sent him anymore pictures, because I don't really have any cute ones to send to him. He has not contacted me. What is he thinking? Does he think the picture I sent him wasn't me or maybe I am not as pretty as I am claiming to be. Help!
2006-08-20 12:45:02 · 7 answers · asked by jennyju 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to sound me towards you but he probably thinks that since you havent sent him any other pictures that you are ugly or fat and not worth his time and he will just chat with somebody else, so hes not worth your time either
2006-08-20 13:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by rsheets24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for men to answer, but I just had to say that I have been through this same situation - twice. I even was able to get in contact with one person and ask what happened. He said he didn't realize I was that much younger than him.
Maybe your picture gave the impression you were too young, too old, etc. My other time I am sure that I looked overweight or something like that. I don't care anymore. I put a picture on my 360 and say look at it. If its not what you want, then keep going and I'll find someone who is not so superficial.
2006-08-20 12:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know what he's thinking, but have you tried contacting him again? If you have and he hasn't responded, then it's probably a good bet he's not that interested. If you haven't, try again and tell him that you don't have any good pictures. I would think that he would at least see you with just one picture, but maybe he's been burnt on that one before. Either way, try again and if no answer...forget it.
2006-08-20 13:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He like most men its about visual aspect my dear lady cause for some reason most of us men have forgotten the other senses in this day and age. He wants to see more of you it has nothing to do with being pretty or not he wants to get a good gauge on your looks before he goes any further with conversation.
2006-08-20 12:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart you should have put that pic here, so we could let you know.. Sounds like hes playing games with you?? In any case,I'de find myself a new friend some how..Theres alot of real nice guys out here that you wount need to question.. Good Luck and hope your happy always.. Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-20 13:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think being pretty has anything to do with it. i think he is an online 'player'. he just wants a bunch of pics of a pretty girl. if he was that interested, you would be talking to him right now! he also seems kinda shallow. he saw a pic of you already so why not have a conversation with you while he waits till you send more? hmmmm, think about it girl!
2006-08-20 12:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful he may be a perv
2006-08-20 12:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋