Why women don't return phone calls?

Question

It happens most of the time I meet someone in person. They are nice, they show interest, they even provide a phone number. Next day I call them and they answer. Next day, they ignore my calls. Why do they like to play this stupid game? Lots of women are very rude with guys sometimes and they know it...What to do about it?

Answer 1

All of them? I mean aren't you just generalizing here over one or two similar incidents? If women do show interests, they won't usually ignore you the second time you call. No, it never happened to me. Unless they found something that turned them off during your first call. Call her again and ask what did you do wrong.

Answer 2

Is ok dude. I can feel you. I always can give good impression to ladies in the first place. But the bad thing is that I don't know how to make jokes in conversation!! On the phone, they can't feel my charm and the conversation was more like questions and answers. It feel weird and no chemestry there! Maybe it is just be.

But don't feel bad. It is not because of you. It is just that they are either no interested into relationship at this moment (they will do the same to other guys as well), or you are not the type she looking for (not mean you are bad. Just maybe she wants certain type of guys ...same as you like Angela Joline over Jessica Simpson..)

I am reading a ebook writen by Dabid Deangelo ('Double your Dating 2nd edition). It really helps and is funny to read. I remember he once said something like below

"If you get shut down really hard, just tell a couple of friends and laugh about it! For ex, "Hey, she turned me down and told me that she doesn't date men who look like Pee Wee Herman? Ha ha ha ha ha ha.."

Just laugh about it and move on to next target.

Edited: Yes, as other mentioned above. Don't call girls right away. Leave it 2-3 days and call her. Just make it natural when you call. YOU CAN'T LET THEM FEEL YOU ARE STRESSING HER.

Answer 3

well i have to ask the same question why don't guys return phone calls too? we all do it ya know but they or we play these
"stupid games" to see if the guys are really interested to call again. . .

Answer 4

well the first thing in your question that jumped out at me was when you said you called them the next day.........listen women are weird i know and figuring them out is like decoding a bomb but one thing is you cant call them the next day......you have to have a few day grace period...maybe you dont think so but trust me man.......3 or 4 days is good enough but not the next day....there gonna think your desperate........other reasons could be that women are just weird or they were drunk the night before but im telling you not to call them the next day.......most important

Answer 5

won't return phone call, because after the first conversation on the phone it became clear to her she was not interested.....and some just like to play hard to get

Answer 6

choose the woman a little bit more mature. Or watch or rethink about the questions that you may be askin, go back and see what types of questions your askin! change it up some and see if its you! maybe your too forward or desperate and it scares women away!

Answer 7

maybe these are the type of women who don't know how to say no in person so they ignore you. they should just give the wrong # to begin with

Answer 8

Maybe you should give them a week or so to actually think about what they like about you. Don't rush it women usually take their time and don't want to seem desperate.

Answer 9

you know some of us woman think the same thing about you men.I've given my number to guys before and they call one time
and ask me to call them. and when i do call them they ignore my phone call.So i guess its safe to say that you men are just as rude as us women.

Answer 10

I think that you are picking girls that are playing hard to get or they just got out of relationship and they thought that they were ready for a relationship, but decided that they weren't.