Thought that would grab your attention,went out with this girl once and things went really well(obviously)and since then we have only talked a couple of times,but i always intiate the contact not to much a text hear and their every once and a while a phone call.Now we talked the other night 4 like 2 hours and she said she's going throught some personal problems and wants 2 get together when she takes care of them.The thing that is really bothering me is I work 10-12 hours a day but i take 5 mins out of my day to say good morning or hello and wish her well,she does'nt do any of this it's always me who makes the first contact.I mean i take time out of my day to say hello why can't she do the same?My question is do i expect to much?She's 24 and i'm 32...
2006-08-20 12:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's just not into you
2006-08-20 12:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by crale70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck with that. 24 year olds are still drama queens! Find someone more your age, maybe like I don't know 30 at least. Give this a chance first though. And have a good evening, No, I don't think you are expecting to much, it is common courtesy to say these things at the very least.
2006-08-20 12:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't U point out everything that U've just written and see what she says. Maybe she likes that U make the first move. It may make her feel wanted. But just let her know how U feel or try giving her a taste of her own medicine and see what happens.
2006-08-20 12:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, personal problems probably is a euphemism for getting rid of a guy. Yes, you expect too much. She may well have slept with you to get back at him. Cool the tool.
2006-08-20 12:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not really looking for anything serious and if things went as well as she hoped on the date she probably just used you for a one night stand and that's all she expected it to be.
2006-08-20 12:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don`t thank you expect to much if a girl likes you she is going to call you just to said hello and hope you have a good day at work are something like that. and about your age it`s not your age OK . just try to call her and see if she will see you are not . just try 1 time. ever body needs to try 1 time.
2006-08-20 12:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it personally, ive been seeing my man for like 3 mths and i think he has called me twice, he is just busy, we're madly in love but some times ppl just dont think of it or they r so use to u making the call that its a part of their routine, dont called her for a day or two and see what happens if she doesnt get back to u in 2 days, then drop her, but if she does shes a keeper
2006-08-20 12:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by jamaicanstar1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this girl is already involved. It seems like you may be her back-up guy. If you don't mind that position ,roll with it. If you do let her go.
2006-08-20 12:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but she is not interested in advancing the relationship to the next leve.
2006-08-20 12:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by muhaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes no longer insterested in you after having relaize how you are during sex- maybe she thought you sucked-but she dont want to hurt your feelings.
2006-08-20 12:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by chicata25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying. If you want her and she's the one you will put up with that. Other wise move on.
2006-08-20 12:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋