I've been talking with this guy over the internet, and we've met a few times. For the past few months we've been talking about sex with each other. I haven't seen him since we've started talking about sex. I'm kinda scared that's all he's interested in. How do I really tell?
2006-08-20 12:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is actually someone I use to work with. We would flirt at work before we started talking about sex.
I kinda get the feeling he could be interested in more than just sex, but... I'm involved with someone else, which is why we haven't yet, and possibly why he hasn't told me he could have those feelings for me.
He's left the choice up to me, and he's telling me to call him when I'm ready, but I still would like to know if it's only about the sex. How do I tell without directly asking him; as he always says, it's suppose to be only about sex.
2006-08-21 00:13:23 · update #1
Um.....you haven't seen him since you started talking about sex, and you think that's all he's interested in? Sounds to me like that's the last thing he's interested in, at least with you.
But in more general terms, the way to know if that's not all a guy is interested in is to not breach the subject in any way until you are well into a relationship, and even then, be "old-fashioned", and wait.
2006-08-20 12:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know until you meet up with him again. See how pushy he is, if he wants to talk about anything but sex. If all he does is flirt and make suggestive remarks he just wants sex. If he talks about anything else he's interested in more.
2006-08-20 12:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that being interested in sex doesn't mean he is interested?
And having met, and not having had sex, what makes you think he is at all interested?
I think you are very mixed up. Probably turned him off...
2006-08-20 12:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he probably just wants sex.
2016-03-26 23:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only calls for sex and if the phone calls stop. you-will know that he was only in it for the sex. and if he don`t take you out to eat are on a date, he just takes you to bed it`s just for sex.
2006-08-20 12:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly into you then it will be for who you are and not what you have. You might want to check out his body language,facial expressions. It might not hurt to talk to him on a one to one basis.
2006-08-20 12:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him waiting and if he stays around, it's not all about sex.
2006-08-20 12:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to wait for marriage, you'll learn everything you need to know about him by his reaction.
2006-08-20 13:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel. Tell him I'm not easy, we don't know each other that well!!
2006-08-20 12:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
email me
2006-08-20 12:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋