There's this guy that I really want to just be friends with but he's totally in love with me and I don't like him like that. He's just not my type and I like him just as a friend. What do I tell? I tried making the "Let's just be friends" thing but he didn't get. What else can I do?! I need help!!!!!
2006-08-20 12:11:30 · 17 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about whether you really want to be friends with someone with whom it is difficult to communicate. You'll probably need to be more firm and more precise. "I don't want to hurt your feelings but I am not interested in more than friendship with you. If you can't accept that, then we can't even be friends." might do.
2006-08-20 12:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had the same problem only worse- he would go around saying that they were dating when they werent and she has a boyfriend hes also challenged so it was hard to tell him that she doesnt think of him like that and they should just be friends but he understood- for a while at least then he started doing it again. She tryed just trying to stay away from him and not really talking too him and then wen that kinda worked (its like trying to open a tight water bottle cap she had to loosen him up first lol) then she tryed to get him to like another girl and now hes her problem.
So if that works...YAY! if not sorry that i couldnt help.
2006-08-20 12:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't ever see him as a boyfriend no matter what. And that you'll always be friends with him! =) Just keep being his friend, and don't give any signals that might make him think you like him. Or better yet, find a boyfriend! =)
2006-08-20 12:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes all you can do is cut him off completely. I know that may be hard because you are friends but this can be hard for him not being able to have you. Take time away from him, and see if he can get over not having you as a girlfriend. He may realize he would rather be friends than nothing at all.
2006-08-20 12:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
His going to be heartbroken, explain to him that you are not interested, you only want to be friends. Eventually he will accept that and move on. Keep in contact with him for the first few weeks while he is getting over you.
2006-08-20 12:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by harvey r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're not interested in a romance with him and if he can't let go of the idea you'll have to not talk to him anymore...
2006-08-20 12:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not interested.. You just want to be friends.
2006-08-20 12:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his attention is making you uncomfortable and if he continues pushing things, soon you won't even be able to be friends. Then follow through and ditch his butt.
2006-08-20 12:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by R. F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to be mean to someone, or else they'll never get the hint.
tell the little horndog to step off. and if that don't work, get a guy to beat him up for you.
2006-08-20 12:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curse him out or go on a date and act so bad he has no choice but not to want relations.
2006-08-20 12:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by animal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋