SEX ? He can't gett off cause i get dry & he just wont let himself go early he wants 2wait like an hour?

Question

So I've been dating this guy for awhile and everything is great. We recently started having sex now cause I wanted to wait awhile . Long story short. Sex is ******* amazing but he keeps in his head he has to go longer for me to enjoy it. I enjoy it but I can't get off with sex, its just me I cant. So i thought that is why he kept going so long all these times so I faked it and he still didnt go but then said my goal came first (i.e. to get me off) and i said i feel bad i can't get u off. (INFO: I HAVE NEVER HAD PROBLEMS GETTING SOMEONE OFF BEFORE) we go so long that i get so dry down there eventually he starts changing condoms cause it has lube on them. I kno i should go buy lube but my question is y do guys wait so long 2 go why do they hold back i know its to make it look good but i seriously feel so bad i cant get him off. I always get him off with a ******* or hand job no problem but the sex is great but its killin me down there literally! I told him its hurts so he wants 2 stop

I need tips to get him off or what to do. He said it's not me at all & that he has no problem getting off with how hott I am and how i have a supermodel body but then why cant he get off right away? why does he hold back? I told him to hurry up and go cause it hurts but then nothing happens and we stop and i look like a dumb ***. ive never had this problem before getting someone off.

Answer 1

he is an idiot for holding back, trying squeezing his nuts, that always make me *** and squeeze them hard to

Answer 2

some guys dont understand that for a girl the orgasm isnt everything. buy some ky first of all and dont use to much as he will feel even less. next practise your kegel that may help.
now guys have this thing that a mutual orgasm is the goal for sex, for making kids this is best as it takes advantage of the cervix dipping during the femal orgasm. girls really dont care about going at the same time but it sticks with guys. and have you tried textured condoms like ribbed this may help him and the kegel exercises may help a little too. but if you really want to get him going i cant really tell you as i dont know the whole situation but if your not active during the act try touching him, and it doesnt have to be all over but if a girl touches my power centers (shoulders neck biceps) it helps me move along and my ears are pretty sensitive so thats real easy. you can also try touching his member as he pulls back from the thrust it may help him get going so to speak.
but basically i think he does the deathgrip when he was by himself so he doesnt get as much sensation from the more subtle feel of you so if you him him a little grip on his member it may help him go over easier, even if you just use a thumb and forefinger to grip him.
Hope that helps

Answer 3

properly now days... its #a million and #2 solutions.. Compromise..even even with the undeniable fact that i dont get something out of the act..i nevertheless have stand through's contained in the the drawer.. i in no way enable # 4 answer to go back into the equation. Been married too dang lengthy for that.. extremely now i could care a lot less.. about #4..previous Catz had the right answer.. lol i agree including her..

Answer 4

first of all you can get off nobody has done you right "fact" second the way you feel about not getting him off is probably how he feels about you not getting off ....you shouldnt need lube i never have i make women ejaculate way more than a man does so dryness not a problem... have you tried oral? i reccomend 2 doses of 69 call me if problem persists .....i dont know why women who have not been with me have such problems getting off...i will say ive been told by women just before they ejaculate it feels kinda like they have to pee so they who never have often want to run to bathroom

Answer 5

look its not ur fault he isnt gettin off. if its hurtin u then u have to stop, but stop off at the store get some k y warming gel, and ask him what he likes. MAybe he is more kinky than u think, switch things up a bit. communication is the key

Answer 6

the only advice i can give you is to get lube it should help. it could be that he just has a problem with getting off. try stimulating him as much as possible before intercourse hopefully that should speed up the process

Answer 7

he either is saying its for you or hes holding out on the feeling for himself ,but if its faster other ways then maybe he prefure other ways to the actual together thing ,but to leave you hurting isnt nice ,and if he knows this and still isnt any faster to give you comfort then id have words with him and ask him to talk openly with you as it sounds to me there is some kind of a mental block,i wish you both luck.

Answer 8

intercourse is not just for getting off. It is suppose to feel good and therefore who wants it to end quickly. You were probably with guys who just haven't learned to make it last. This is just something that comes with age and experience. Try some lubrication and let him enjoy himself! goodluck

Answer 9

I can not believe I just read that whole thing. Let him take the rubber off and go freestyle. You go on the pill. Problem solved.

Answer 10

Buy some Astroglide. You can get it at Wal-Mart beside the K-Y. It last a really long time. Try rubbing yourself while he's going at it and he probably won't last very long seeing you do yourself.

Answer 11

I have the same problem with my hubby, he can go for hours. Once you start getting dry, use some lubricant. This is what we do and it works well.