i like a boy but he smokes?

Question

i like this boy and hes really nice in all but my friend just found out that he smoked and told me and i saw him the other day while iwas scholl shopping and then i got scared because my firend ttold him i liked him and i dont know what to do help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

okay. settle down and breathe hon. once that is established, let's get down to the gist of this. what's the issue here? the smoking? or the fact she told him you like him? the second thing...it's not that big a deal. he might have known anyway. just let that one go. people act like that all the time (telling those you like them). about the smoking. you have to decide if you can deal with that. i personally can't and won't deal with it. i hate smoking and i hate what it does to a person. i see the long term affects in one of my uncle's and i won't deal with it. if you CANT' then ask him to stop around you or stop altogether. whichever you need. if you CAN...then that's fine for you. either way, i hope all goes for the best. IM or 360 me anytime. *hug*

Answer 2

go out with him and the next time you see him if you still do like him tell him how you feel and want to see him again but only if he quits smoking!!!

Answer 3

um, ok, he SMOKES...................*shock horror*

i presume it's cigarettes he smokes and not crack? good, coz if it was the latter i would tell you to run like the wind. but if it is the former, i would say GET A GRIP!!!! geeeezzzzzzzz!!!

how old are you?

Answer 4

y u dont like guys who smokes???

Answer 5

ok if u guys start goin out ask him to stop noone likes to kiss an ash trey unless thats wat there mouth is too
and if he doesnt quite dump him
unless u like that kind of stuff

Answer 6

tell him not to smoke dont hold it against him

Answer 7

Dump him.