I've just turned 16 and I've never had a boyfriend...all my friends have had boyfriends and it's making me feel down. Not meaning to sound arrogant but im not ugly and people have told me I'm hot before...I dont really know what it is that I'm doing wrong...please give me some advice!! Thanks x x x x x
2006-08-20 11:50:11 · 17 answers · asked by xxlalaxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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-------------are like apples------------------
--------on trees. The best ones-----------
-------are at the top of the tree.--------
------The boys dont want to reach------
----for the good ones because they ------
--are afraid of falling and getting hurt.----
-Instead, they just get the rotten apples-
--from the ground that aren't as good, --
but easy. So the apples at the top think
something is wrong with them, when in
--reality, they're amazing. They just----
---have to wait for the right boy to-------
----- come along, the one who's-----------
----------- brave enough to-----------------
-----------------climb all----------------------
----------------- the way---------------------
-----------------to the top--------------------
---------------- of the tree.------------------
=) hope it helps!
2006-08-20 11:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, awww dont worry about it honest! Just because they've experienced a reltionship doesnt mean it was the right thing to do... now youve come to an age now where your mature, any reltionship you get into will be more adult like rather than a silly teenage crush or whatever you call them, sure you won't be experienced but then you'll need to find a guy who's willing to be there for you... and theres plenty of 'em, ignore the pig headed ones, leave 'em to your friends ;o)
Yeah i also agree with that poem with the tree, its so true, just because a guy doesnt go for you doesnt mean theres something wrong with you, they know their not worth it, wait for that guy who is willing to climb that tree.... its a great feeling when it happens =)
2006-08-20 19:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it. Carry on having fun with all your friends - then when the opportunity comes along for you to go on a date and start a relationship with a boy take it a step at a time and enjoy the experience. Don't whatever you do just throw yourself to whoever just so you can have a boyfriend. You are of worth and just carry on being yourself - it will happen, trust me.
2006-08-20 18:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were sixty & had never had a boyfriend, I might lean towards saying you might have a problem.
Who cares what these other girls have? Or are you one of those girls that when one goes & buys a pink notebook you have to go buy a pink notebook?
Worry about your education. Learn to take care of yourself. Be nice, friendly, kind, well-mannered, well-read, know a bit of what's going on in the world around you. Learn to carry on a good conversation, how to handle yourself in social situations, be well-groomed, dress nicely, not necessarily fashionably. Oh, & smile.
You will then have your choice of men.
2006-08-20 19:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself more than anything and never feel that you have to do something which you are uncomfortable with.Sports are a good way to meet new friends.
you may find that there is already some boy out there who knows you and is too shy to ask you out.
smile,and feel good about yourself,you will look back at this time in your life and wonder what all the fuss was about
Be happy!!!!
2006-08-20 19:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything just because you fill left out. Some do and make a major mistake. It'll happen when you least expect it. Don't feel bad. You sound of a person of high morals and character. Stay that way and you will attract the creme de crop.
2006-08-20 18:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u are still very young and there is plenty of time for boyfriends. just enjoy being with your friends and have fun, im sure a boy will come along soon! just be happy with yourself and im sure a nice guy will notice u soon! try not to feel down or u will just look miserable and that is not attractive. just be yourself and be happy and have fun, that is more attractive to others! good luck!
2006-08-20 19:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey there is nothing wrong with you at all. embrace the single life and have fun with it! it's best to be single anyway. i don't flirt around but i also don't have to worry about someone watching me and how i am all the time either. i've had a ton of bfs and have been asked out recently and i say no. i want to be single. trust me...it isn't a bad thing at all. :) your time will come and someday you will find love. don't worry about bfs to fill the space. it's not worth it.
2006-08-20 19:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i say don't sweat it. this might sounds like crap but everyone goes at their own pace you know? just go with the flow. if you're interested in any guys, try talking to them. start something up yourself if you don't want to wait for them too. hang in their, you'll get a boyfriend and most likely soon.
2006-08-20 18:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, think of your career and forget about boys they can be very distracting at your age. and trust me 16 or 61 there will always be boys or old grandads falling for women out there.
2006-08-20 19:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ok your time just hasn't come yet and beside do you realy want some guy always trying to get in yourt pants yet
2006-08-20 19:00:19 · answer #11 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋