I left my ex a couple of months ago and now I realized that I don't want a relationship or commitment I just want companionship and the occasional lay. Does that make me a bad person?
2006-08-20 11:09:53 · 11 answers · asked by fiery_ember 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way I AM a FEMALE so does that break a stereotype for people now b/c personally I don't think it makes me cheap or easy it makes life slightly less complicated
2006-08-20 11:32:51 · update #1
NO, IT IS SMART TO ALLOW YOURELF THE FREEDM TO EXPERIENCE MANY. AND YOU SHOULD. THE MORE YOU EXPERIENCE, THE MORE WISDOM YOU WILL GAIN. AND WHEN YOU HAVE MORE WISDOM AND EXPERIENCE, YOU WILL BE BETTER ABLE TO SPOT SOMEONE WHO FITS YOU WELL, AND WHO YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO CHANGE ANYTHING FOR. AND THAT PERSON WILL KNOW THAT YOU PICKED THEM, AFTER ALL YOU HAVE SEEN AND DONE, AND FEEL THAT MUCH MORE SPECIAL TO YOU.
2006-08-20 11:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes you a typical American male..Sadly, women are so desperate and cheap these days that I'm sure you'll find someone who wil give you that type of "booty call relationship"...Boy, if women closed their legs we'd rule the world...Anyway, its best to wait for the Love of Your Life, instead of some cheap booty call girls who's probably giving it up to you and 2 other guys...And dont forget to use condoms--even though they dont protect you from Herpes & Genital Warts..And dont forget that sex makes babies and condoms break (thats how my brother got here), and you could end up being stuck with some woman as your Baby Momma for the rest of your life and paying child support for 18 years--simply because you wanted a quick piece of as$. (it happens every day). Good Luck.
2006-08-20 11:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not make you a bad person. Some people just don't want to settle down. I, myself, would not do this. That is not who I am. Always be careful when you choose the people. Always protect yourself from any diseases. Maybe one day you will change your outlook on this life style.
2006-08-20 11:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not necessary make you a bad person as long as you and whom ever the person you choose to sleep with understands that is all you are looking for at that time.
2006-08-20 11:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and it doesn't make you lonely either. When the time is right you will start looking again. Enjoy your break!
2006-08-20 11:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. some people just want to have a little fun now that there single.
2006-08-20 11:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by p-lane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just a lonely one.
2006-08-20 11:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because other persons are like that
2006-08-20 11:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a terrible way to live it works for me
2006-08-20 11:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, as long as you are honest about it
2006-08-20 11:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋