dumped....?

Question

any suggestions on how to get over being dumped? what helps, you get over someone? I'm in desperate need of suggestions. I already got rid of momentos, deleted phone number, but what now? It's getting better but there are still those moments that creep up on you.

Answer 1

I would try to stay as involved with your buddies as possible.

When I got dumped by my first girlfriend I felt terrible all the time and just slept alot.

My friends really helped me out by going out to do things all the time.

They really helped me get through it.

Answer 2

im really sorry i know what it feels like i just dumped mine about 4 hrs ago and i wish i had a much easier way but im moving away from home to a new and a very far away place i guess all u need is a good friend to talk too and mine is not around today has probs of her own if u need someone just mail me :))
u WILL get over him ....dont give up..

Answer 3

try to focus on yourself. Do things that make you happy. Get into school, exercise, finish a project or start one, reading, go visit family and friends. Don't be distracted by him. Just keep telling yourself, that he was not the one for you. It may be hard, but with each passing day, you be better without him. Good luck.

Answer 4

Oh god...I know how painful that is.

Try to take care of yourself, surround yourself with things that you like (colors, music, pets, friends, etc), try to have something to look forward to every day even if it's just some small thing like what you're going to have for lunch.

Time is really the only thing that will help...just remember, things change...you won't feel like this forever.

Answer 5

Make new friends, be with your other friends and family, do something that you enjoy. The one who is meant for you will come along when it is right. Just keep hoping and praying. It's going to be easier as time goes on.

Answer 6

SORRY TO HEAR THIS..,

Been there .., unfortunately, done that..,again unfortunately..,
Girl.., it just takes time.., sometimes alot of time..,
For me, after a 7 year relationship.., that ended in "97".., I still will occasionally feel pangs of missing her.
I believe that if you love someone.., you all of a sudden don't UN - LOVE them. Alot of other feelings may crowd into your perception.., but LOVE will always be there.
You just learn to live with-out them as time goes on.

Answer 7

this happens to all of us at some stage in our lives and we live to tell about it. yes it hurts and yes you feel like there is no life or anyone else. take yr time meet with friends go out more away from sitting around this just adds to the depression if you just sit around. more tips on relationships and dating that will help you on this site

Answer 8

Read a book, go watch a movie, go to school, study, go out with your friends, start dating again.
Any time those moments that creep up on you, call your friends, or go talk to your family--do something until it passes.

Answer 9

some times you cant do any thing you will always have memories.i wish there was some thin we could do to get over people we love miss or even hate. if you still love him it will be even harder to let go.
best hopes to ya

dont listen to people up there sayin get some one else it ant that easy they never lost any one importint.

Answer 10

You're doing the right thing and you'll be alright. You're still going to think about it but in your own way, you are moving on with your lif which is what you're suppose to do. It's their loss, not yours.