My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and he wanted all the lights on. I think it made him finish too early. Why?
2006-08-20 11:04:44 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously, I wasn't afraid cuz I did it. I just wanted to know why they like it.
2006-08-20 11:12:44 · update #1
Because women are self-conscious about their bodies regardless of how beautiful they are, where as guys are blessed with the ability to be 80 pounds overweight, and bald, and still think we look good. And yeah, looking down (or up) at a beautiful girl in full lighting will definitely make us finish sooner.
2006-08-20 11:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Average John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally think sex with lights is ridiculous (most of the time). When you have sex, you usually do it at night, and you usually fall asleep after a while, then you wake up in the morning. If he has the lights on its like having sex in public view, so his mental mind is almost telling him, I'm having sex outside, everyone sees me I'd better stop. As long as the lights are off there is a great sense of privacy, allowing more intimacy, allowing there to being a greater length of time, allowing both of you to burn more calories. Or at least that's my theory on sex and lights.
2006-08-20 11:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to have sex with the light on because they like to watch the person's facial expressions when they are in the process of having sex.
2006-08-20 11:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason I like to eat dinner with the lights on, Unless your some fat pig who's hiding rolls, ...I don't understand the lights off, Don't you want to have fun, or do you feel sex Is only for making babies?
2006-08-20 11:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by supervfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual creatures. They like to watch. To see you and everything thats going on. Think, why do men watch porn? Why does some men think it would be cool to have mirrors all over the bedroom? lol
They like it...if it made him finish faster it probably just turned him on more.
2006-08-20 11:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why not have sex with the lights on? If you are afraid to have sex with the lights on maybe you need to have a little more self-confidence.
2006-08-20 11:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guy get turned on by looks and nothing looks better than seeing the wiener slid in and out of the vag and yes it made him finish too soon and to let you know next time he is gettin close to finishing and you ain't close yet tell him to stop and start to lick on the ol honey pot if he don't want to take care of you then you need to make him take care of you otherwise YOUR sex life is going to suck and HIS is going to be great
2006-08-20 11:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why my dear lady cause I never like to have the lights on and enjoy the sense of touch more than sight.
2006-08-20 11:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to look at their woman's body. I'd rather keep the lights off and have a few lit candles, it makes it more romantic.
2006-08-20 11:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by jestelap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what u are talking about but what my boyfriend wanted the lights on for is so he can see my face expression and it turns him on more so it makes him finish earlier
2006-08-20 11:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋